I think what I heard from day one in this applys.
If you want a relationship friendship, you shouldn't be here.
Its a very valued piece of wisdom I think.
I am friends with an sp.
But its like what happens next. Where do we go from here.
We were planning to just get together, and socialize ok, something we have done before. No big deal.
We go out and do things to places were she runs the risk of having to explain me instead of the other way around.
But any way we were planning on something that there would be no risk, it would just happen. I would bump into her people.
She was reluctant, but was willing to go, it was me that changed our plans.
I think at some point you as a guy want to know, if the girls in this really like you, or whatever.
So its only natural.
And I think if your seeing the same woman or several women, its more like what the hell is wrong with you if not one women likes you.
Im married have a life, so does she, have a life I mean.
we have tried to keep it professional. But the last year or so, we have crossed the line.
And you know its just awkward.
And you know its not even like Im trying to be romantic or seduce her, or anything, we just like each others company.
But we both have a life, and its just awkward and difficult. Trying to fit it all in.
Relationships are hard take work to make them last take care and time and attention.
There was a bleep on the news about pologymony, and one comment was one relationship is hard how do you manage two.
I tend to agree how do you manage two,
If you want a relationship friendship, you shouldn't be here.
Its a very valued piece of wisdom I think.
I am friends with an sp.
But its like what happens next. Where do we go from here.
We were planning to just get together, and socialize ok, something we have done before. No big deal.
We go out and do things to places were she runs the risk of having to explain me instead of the other way around.
But any way we were planning on something that there would be no risk, it would just happen. I would bump into her people.
She was reluctant, but was willing to go, it was me that changed our plans.
I think at some point you as a guy want to know, if the girls in this really like you, or whatever.
So its only natural.
And I think if your seeing the same woman or several women, its more like what the hell is wrong with you if not one women likes you.
Im married have a life, so does she, have a life I mean.
we have tried to keep it professional. But the last year or so, we have crossed the line.
And you know its just awkward.
And you know its not even like Im trying to be romantic or seduce her, or anything, we just like each others company.
But we both have a life, and its just awkward and difficult. Trying to fit it all in.
Relationships are hard take work to make them last take care and time and attention.
There was a bleep on the news about pologymony, and one comment was one relationship is hard how do you manage two.
I tend to agree how do you manage two,
