Getting started on paying for sex

[UBCnoob]

Hi,

I found this thread as I was searching on Google about information on escorts.

I'm 20 and a college student (guess the school).

I'm just really shy and very desperate for sex. I'm still a virgin and have not had any relationships with girls (I have many female friends but no romantic relationships). I feel sad about having to resort to paying girls for sex, but I've spent too much time trying to get girlfriends. It's cheaper to pay $50 or $100 for sex than to waste hours thinking about it (studying or getting work experience is worth at least $50 per hour).

I don't know how to get started. CL's ers section got shut down so I'm using this site. Do I just phone them?

What are some tips for a complete newbie like me? How should I act toward those girls?

Thanks

 

[dunnochit]

$50 or $100?? Spend it on lube and a good magazine, because $50 or $100 is not going to take you very far around here.
JMHO
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[UBCnoob]

How much does it usually cost for the BJ?

 

[vancity_cowboy]

magazine! jeez dunno, where you been? that new fangled invention, the internet, has got FREE PORN MOVIES of all things - some pretty hot shit too ...and free

 

[dunnochit]

It gets the keyboard all sticky though
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[FloridaGuy]

Scroll through the Vancouver review section until you find a lady who attracts your interest and is in your price range. If you are really nervous about it I would suggest the easiest way is to book an incall with a lady from a well-reviewed agency, or a well-reviewed indy girl. Once you have your girl, you call the agency to see if she's working. You may want to have a second and third choice picked out in case your #1 is not available.

The phone operator will confirm what time you want to see the girl, and will either give you an address or a major intersection (and ask that you call back once you're at that intersection, at which point they will give you the exact address of the incall location). Go to the building and buzz up, using the code they will give you on the phone, and go to the apartment number they will give you. Knock on the door.

Have your money in an envelope. After you've entered the apartment and said hi to the girl, put the envelope on a table top and say "this is for you", or just hand it to the lady. You should be clean when you get there but she may ask you if you want a shower. Say yes, even if you don't need one. It assures the girl you will be clean for the session. She may or may not join you.

Once out of the shower, go to the bedroom, with the towel around your waist. She will join you. Be sweet and courteous, but be open about what you want. It sounds like you just want straight sex, so tell her you just want a GFE (like the movie). At some point you need to step forward and kiss her, then things take off from there. No need to be shy - the lady won't be!!! Just relax and enjoy her body. You will be amazed at how easy it is, and wonder why the hell you didn't do it sooner.

At the end of the session, you can ask for another shower if you want, and use some mouthwash if she has any in the bathroom. Or, just get dressed and leave.

Enjoy!

 

[dunnochit]

Have a look at the Independant section to get an idea. There are certainly those who offer quickies, or blow and go's for cheap. I am just not sure if this is the place to find them though. Ladies???
erslist, duttslist, backpage to name a few places

How much does it usually cost for the BJ?

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[UBCnoob]

What about finding girls from classifieds?

What's the significance of getting a girl who's "well-reviewed"? What's the worst that can happen?

If I like a girl's picture and she's going to have sex with me then what could I be worried about?

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I just noticed something interesting. There aren't any ugly girls. It's not like the market for cars where you have Maybachs, BMWs, and then Suzukis. All of the girls are hot and they are all expensive.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

What about finding girls from classifieds?

What's the significance of getting a girl who's "well-reviewed"? What's the worst that can happen?

you need to spend the weekend reading through the review files here to learn about the worst that can happen - believe me, it can be pretty bad

ditto for why you should get a well reviewed lady and ditto for picking a lady from the classifieds. some of us have a lot of experience at using the classiifeds and have developed some pretty special skills at picking out the rip-offs, but its pretty seldom that a newby would naturally have those skills. i wasted 2 sessions worth of money before i found a good one, and you wouldn't believe how terrible the first two were (one was very good looking, the other was very ugly, but both sessions left me wondering why i was doing this and i almost quit. maybe i should have, but that's another story)

 

[tantalizeme]

I'm 20 and a college student (guess the school).

I'm just really shy and very desperate for sex. I'm still a virgin and have not had any relationships with girls (I have many female friends but no romantic relationships). I feel sad about having to resort to paying girls for sex, but I've spent too much time trying to get girlfriends. It's cheaper to pay $50 or $100 for sex than to waste hours thinking about it (studying or getting work experience is worth at least $50 per hour).

Do I just phone them?

What are some tips for a complete newbie like me? How should I act toward those girls?

Thanks

Hi UBCnoob,

Don't be put off by the cynics around here poking fun at you.

$100-$120 can buy you a fine 45-min erotic full-meal deal, though generally not with the independent Western SPs (Indys) advertising on this site.

If you're a shy young man strapped for cash, but exploding with sexual neediness—ah, how well I remember those feelings myself, at 20!—just phone the number for an Asian SP. The phone person will give you directions, usually to an apartment.

Once you're there, don't worry at all about how to "act toward those girls." They know what to do, and will just draw you into the flow of things. You might read a few detailed reviews to get an idea of what to expect.

I find duttslist (http://www.duttslist.com/erotic_services.html) overall more useful than backpage, but you'll easily find several recent threads on PERB listing over half a dozen replacement sites for CL.

No need to feel "sad" about starting your sex life with an SP; there's no shame in it. I did so myself as well, many moons ago. It's a great way to build your sexual confidence. What regular girls stingily withhold an SP will happily share.

Hope you have a great first experience. Report back how it goes!

 

[UBCnoob]

No offense, but I find the Asian ones more innocent and attractive. It'd be awesome if they're cheaper as well.

I'm going to wait for a few weeks... I just don't want to lose my virginity to an escort but the primitive urges are overpowering my rationality. I feel like Spock during pon farr. It's making hard to be productive.

Thanks for the duttlist.com, but I can't seem to find Vancouver.

Finally, what's an Asian "micro"? What's a micro?

 

[tantalizeme]

No offense, but I find the Asian ones more innocent and attractive. It'd be awesome if they're cheaper as well.

I'm going to wait for a few weeks... I just don't want to lose my virginity to a whore but the primitive urges are overpowering my rationality. I feel like Spock during pon farr. It's making hard to be productive.

Thanks for the duttlist.com, but I can't seem to find Vancouver.

Finally, what's an Asian "micro"? What's a micro?

Hey UBCnoob,

First I advise you against thinking of an erotic service provider in ignorantly judgmental terms, like "whore." SPs are wonderful beings making the world a happier place.

There should be no problem locating "Vancouver area" in the right-hand column of the duttslist.com homepage. (I notice sometimes the site seems to be slow to respond; I guess the server is overloaded?)

About micros, there're a number of conflicting perspectives. Here's mine, based on over 3 years of almost weekly experience:

I'd say, "micro" is short for "micro-brothel," a home-based operation, usually run out of a condo, with 2-4 Asian girls and a papasan or mamasan who looks after publicity, phone communication, security, food, rent etc. The majority of micro girls come from China (including Taiwan & Hongkong), but some are from Korea, Singapore, Japan or other Asian countries.

Most micros are in modern highrises, with a big mattress in a nice room and clean bathroom either en suite or close by—so they tend to be much more comfortable (and cheaper) than storefront massage spas. I generally find micro girls cute, friendly, motivated and patient, but don't expect many of them to speak much English. Going overtime is far more common than being rushed, except when other pooners are waiting, usually during peak hours on Fri & Sat evenings.

Micro girls are usually age 20—35, though the older ones generally misadvertise their age as 5—10 yrs younger. Donations generally range from $120 (for Chinese) to $160 (for Koreans), but most micros these days aren't overly busy during weekdays and offer lots of $100 "specials." Standard services include accompanied showers, BBBJ (unless you prefer CBJ), DATY, digits, FS, and often kissing & rimming. Greek is $40 extra, for those girls who do it.

Overall my micro experience has been overwhelmingly positive.

 

[UBCnoob]

How do donations work? In most contexts donations are voluntary... is it just a euphemism in this case?

Can someone please send me a link of a Vancouver Duttlist post?

I can't even find Canada (my default screen is NYC). This is all I see:



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[shaggadelic]

If you are willing to save up some money, I highly recommend the foxden (it is a "massage parlor" style setup). It's $325 for the hour though so on the expensive end of the scale. They have all kinds of hot girls mostly in their 20s. PM if you want more info.

Whether you enjoy your experience or not depends so so much on the girl. I didn't really enjoy pooning that much until I found my ATF at the foxden. But I guess if this is going to be your first experience it really doesn't matter because you will probably enjoy it either way.

 

[FloridaGuy]

Holy high maintenance, batman!! And you're in university??? Figure it out (although I'm sure someone will come aboard and hold your hand through the entire process). Just go out and book a lady - men have been doing it for thousands of years.......its easy. Just do it.

 

[luvsdaty]

Take the ferry over to Vic and save yourself a pile of money,lots of amazing girls over here to choose from.

 

[Pillowtalk]

Take the ferry over to Vic and save yourself a pile of money,lots of amazing girls over here to choose from.

I think the 50 he was budgeting for this would be spent on just getting there.

 

[Pillowtalk]

Holy high maintenance, batman!! And you're in university??? Figure it out (although I'm sure someone will come aboard and hold your hand through the entire process). Just go out and book a lady - men have been doing it for thousands of years.......its easy. Just do it.

The state of higher education today.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I think the 50 he was budgeting for this would be spent on just getting there.

yah, then he'd be fucked for getting back to ubc unless he knows how to swim lol

 

[emacky]

Poor kid, I wasn't much older than him when I join perb.

Yo UBC u need to google duttlist and find the Vancouver page. And FYI for your budget, you'll find women quite a bit older than you probably 30 plus. Or yould always true your luck with a street walker. They are usually bout $60 or so. If you are willing to invest more money for the first time you might have more luck.

Good luck dude