Can An SP's Age Make You Feel Dirty??

[JFF009]

So this afternoon I'm cruising CL thinking about possibly getting a quick bj before the hockey game.
I come across an 18 y/o near Lougheed Mall. Normally I wouldn't even pay attention cuz I've always thought anyone advertising as 18 might actually be younger and then I'm in legal trouble.
This time I got a different feeling. I felt like a dirty old man for even considering it. I have a child in his mid-late teens so I'm wondering if that has something to do with it. I'm sure one day it will be a fantasy to have sex with my son's friends but I'm hoping I'm still 10 years away from that.
I've only seen a couple of ladies under 25 and I usually go for someone 28 or older. I just find there's a better connection. They're less grossed out and able to get into the session when they're a little older.

Do others struggle with the age thing?

 

[Harmony-bc]

I know I do on the opposite side of the equation. I don't like seeing too young. I find, I'm more awkward, and I don't feel as sexy. I feel like mothering and lecturing instead, hahahaha. I prefer over 30, but I am comfortable with over 25. Under 25, I am so not interested, sexually, or intellectually, with the very odd exception. Some people are old souls, I turn people down, if they tell me their age, and I think its too young. I sent an 18 year old home one day. I said, I am really uncomfortable seeing you. Its not personal,

 

[sonoman]

I sent an 18 year old home one day.

Poor bastard...

 

[Thatotherguy]

Poor bastard...

Nah, he's probably lucky. She would have destroyed him!

 

[Harmony-bc]

Poor bastard...

Nah, he's probably lucky. She would have destroyed him!

hahaha, I was really nice. He kept insisting he liked older women. (I don't want to be thought of as the older woman. yuck, hahaha) I gave him suggestions of a few girls that were closer to his age, and told him when making an appointment that it might be nice to let the girl know his age, so he doesn't have to make a trip, and that was that,

I like level playing fields. If you are young enough that I could have been your extremely young biological mother, then you are way too young for me !!!!

 

[JFF009]

I like level playing fields. If you are young enough that I could have been your extremely young biological mother, then you are way too young for me !!!!

This made me laugh. Harmony, you're such a doll.

 

[visiting]

Harmony, I am so happy your restrictions are based on actual age, as all my friends say I am a 12 year old adult baby....

 

[bigfred]

The age thing is something that I've wondered about on a couple of levels. First, I'm just not that interested in 18 year olds-it takes some time to get good at what you do and I think that I really can't connect too well with someone that young. I also have a thing about them feeling a "daddy complex" when they see a guy like me (55).
In fact, i wonder about that even with the 30 year old SPs. I've often read that they prefer older guys, but is there a "too old?"

 

[athaire]

Haven't experienced any issues with seeing younger SP's as yet. But after reading some of this I might......LOL.....

 

[curmudgeon]

I had a parallel feeling a year ago. Our office hired a temp H.R. staffer.
She's a very nice, completely likable young woman. I knew she was a recent university graduate, so I guessed she was about 21-22 (she confirmed this later on when her birthday came around). But good heavens, she looked younger. She could pass for 17-18.

I remember, when I met her, my first thought was "cute girl, nice person". Then, being the horny bugger that I am, my second thought was..... well, less honorable. But then my third thought was "oh crap, this feels wrong.... I'm almost old enough to be this girl's father."

 

[Bad Santa]

So this afternoon I'm cruising CL thinking about possibly getting a quick bj before the hockey game.
I come across an 18 y/o near Lougheed Mall. Normally I wouldn't even pay attention cuz I've always thought anyone advertising as 18 might actually be younger and then I'm in legal trouble.
This time I got a different feeling. I felt like a dirty old man for even considering it.

Do others struggle with the age thing?

Nahhh! Go for it! Bad is Good and dirty is better!

You only live once and time is running out, so the older you are the dirtier you have to get!!

Being eighteen myself, I get told quite often by the gentlemen who visit me that they feel guilty. I think it's kind of adorable of them. The people who write my advertisements prod my age up by a year or two to help alleviate that guilt, but when asked, I tell my real age. :O

I also have to agree with harmony about seeing younger guys. There are some below 25 guys who are quite nice, but I still prefer older men. A lot of younger guys who have visited me have been arrogant, impolite, and just plain rude in bed. Older gentlemen in comparison are great to converse with, they're polite, respectful, and generally better partners to romp with. They also tend to have better hygiene.

Where is your "spaghetti land," Sihasen? I'd like to bring my old noodle for a romp. I'm sure you'd wake it up!

I would feel sooo guilty, honest!

I agree.

I'm only 22, but I've had clients that were 18 and 19 years old. I always felt wierd about it even if they are only 3-4 years younger. My sister is 19 years old! I might as well be having sex with one of her best friends!

I do prefer a more mature gentleman for the exact reasons Sihasen specified. They're just so much more polite and respectful...plus they usually have the experience to know what to do.

Ahh, Kimhoney, 22 is the perfect age to sit that sweet young heinie on Bad Santa's lap!

I'm always polite and respectful!