Why White Men Prefer Asian Women
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Asian or other?
I have said on a earlier post that I have a fetish for Asain. Thinking about that statement I realized that is not what I have. I have a fetish for women who make me feel good. It has been my fortune to have met two Asians over the past 5 years that have provided me with that and in return I try to give as much as I take.
These ladies I met through MP's, so true real life meetings would be a fairer way to judge.
I can say, as I watch ladies around the world, everyone of you, regardless of nationality can be the most sexy, desired women I can imagine. It is how you present yourself that makes the difference.
Beauty alone is not all it takes. Dress, confidence, commitment to yourself all comes across as soemthing that catches my eye. Normally that will transfer to how they are sexually. You cannot change the stripes on tiger. If they have all that on the inside, it will come out on the outside. When you find that lady, grab her, she will be a keeper.
G.A.
I have said on a earlier post that I have a fetish for Asain. Thinking about that statement I realized that is not what I have. I have a fetish for women who make me feel good. It has been my fortune to have met two Asians over the past 5 years that have provided me with that and in return I try to give as much as I take.
These ladies I met through MP's, so true real life meetings would be a fairer way to judge.
I can say, as I watch ladies around the world, everyone of you, regardless of nationality can be the most sexy, desired women I can imagine. It is how you present yourself that makes the difference.
Beauty alone is not all it takes. Dress, confidence, commitment to yourself all comes across as soemthing that catches my eye. Normally that will transfer to how they are sexually. You cannot change the stripes on tiger. If they have all that on the inside, it will come out on the outside. When you find that lady, grab her, she will be a keeper.
G.A.
I find this to be quite an interesting question. From my perspective as a third generation Asian born in Vancouver ( one could call me a banana ) I have rarely been attracted to an Asian woman. I have wondered why AMP's are so popular, at least there seem to be a lot of threads in that regard.
For me I do not find the "typical" Asian female physique to be a turn-on. I prefer tall, slim athletic body types. However, I must confess that my preferences may be changing. Was in Japan late last year and spent most of my time in Tokyo and Osaka. I was in Aoyama, Ginza and Roppongi checking out the sights. Think Robson St. but taken to the next level. The Japanese girls/women spare no expense when it comes to dressing up. As an Asian" White" guy I think I was experiencing the reverse effect in that I was viewing them as a different race !
Not only is there a physical difference but I think there is a personality difference. Do Caucasian men find docile/compliant Asian women more attractive ? Do Asian men find strong willed Caucasian women more attractive ?
For me I do not find the "typical" Asian female physique to be a turn-on. I prefer tall, slim athletic body types. However, I must confess that my preferences may be changing. Was in Japan late last year and spent most of my time in Tokyo and Osaka. I was in Aoyama, Ginza and Roppongi checking out the sights. Think Robson St. but taken to the next level. The Japanese girls/women spare no expense when it comes to dressing up. As an Asian" White" guy I think I was experiencing the reverse effect in that I was viewing them as a different race !
Not only is there a physical difference but I think there is a personality difference. Do Caucasian men find docile/compliant Asian women more attractive ? Do Asian men find strong willed Caucasian women more attractive ?
To me it's got nothing to do with being compliant or submissive as I don't
look for personal qualities in an Asian at first glimpse. Obviously you can't
get that from just looking at someone no matter what race they are.
I just find Asian women so damn attractive. Long silky black hair down
to her butt.........sigh !
Very smooth and flawless buttery soft skin with classic Almond shaped
eyes that tilt up in the corners, that feature, no caucasian women can possess. So I'd have to say its definately the eyes combined with all the above.
Call me shallow or whatever you want but physically attractive they are
to me. I love 'em all !!
Oh and especially Angel !! She also possesses a fabulous personality
I've only had the pleasure of seeing once before.
Just thought I'd put that in there for you Richmann.
..............QM'r
look for personal qualities in an Asian at first glimpse. Obviously you can't
get that from just looking at someone no matter what race they are.
I just find Asian women so damn attractive. Long silky black hair down
to her butt.........sigh !
Very smooth and flawless buttery soft skin with classic Almond shaped
eyes that tilt up in the corners, that feature, no caucasian women can possess. So I'd have to say its definately the eyes combined with all the above.
Call me shallow or whatever you want but physically attractive they are
to me. I love 'em all !!
Oh and especially Angel !!
She also possesses a fabulous personalityI've only had the pleasure of seeing once before.
Just thought I'd put that in there for you Richmann.
..............QM'r
this is not rocket science
Some white men like asian woman because they look exotic.
Some white men like asian woman because white woman don't want them.
Some white men like asian woman because some asian woman prefer white men.
Some white men like asian woman because this city is full of asian woman (so if your are lost in the forest you are going to eat what you can)
Some white men like asian woman because they don't see them as asian but just a woman.
Some white men like asian woman because they want to have beautiful mix race children.
So why don't you try one. It's not rocket science.
Some white men like asian woman because they look exotic.
Some white men like asian woman because white woman don't want them.
Some white men like asian woman because some asian woman prefer white men.
Some white men like asian woman because this city is full of asian woman (so if your are lost in the forest you are going to eat what you can)
Some white men like asian woman because they don't see them as asian but just a woman.
Some white men like asian woman because they want to have beautiful mix race children.
So why don't you try one. It's not rocket science.
Some men prefer petite, slender women & many Asian women fall into this
category.
Some men prefer 'exotic' looking women. Even if an Asian woman is not
considered attractive within her ethnic circle, just the mere fact she is
'exotic' to a white man, then this factor alone is attractive in his eyes.
Many of these same men will also find hispanic or S.E. Asian women
attractive as well.
Some men want a woman who is 'family oriented'. Asians in general place
great emphasis on family. How many Asian couples do you see out there
who are childless? Not many.
Vancouver is culturally diversed. If many of your co-workers/classmates
are Asians, then it's only natural you will connect with some of them.
Some men want women who age gracefully & many Asian women seem
to possess this quality (aversion to the sun has a lot to do with it).
Many Asian women who are born or grew up in N. America do not find
Asian men attractive & white men happen to be the majority. So the
attraction is mutual.
Many Asian women past their child bearing years will try to hook up with
caucasian men since Asian men will not find them attractive anymore.
Asian women who grew up in Asia have a more 'practical' approach on
love. They place emphasis on education, job status & age first.
Personality, looks & sexual attraction is secondary. The downside of this
is that she could be marrying a guy who looks good on paper but there
is no sexual connection (bad in the long run). So even if a guy is considered
a 'nerd' or 'geek' by N. American standards but he possesses certain
professional traits, he's deemed a good catch by an Asian woman.
category.
Some men prefer 'exotic' looking women. Even if an Asian woman is not
considered attractive within her ethnic circle, just the mere fact she is
'exotic' to a white man, then this factor alone is attractive in his eyes.
Many of these same men will also find hispanic or S.E. Asian women
attractive as well.
Some men want a woman who is 'family oriented'. Asians in general place
great emphasis on family. How many Asian couples do you see out there
who are childless? Not many.
Vancouver is culturally diversed. If many of your co-workers/classmates
are Asians, then it's only natural you will connect with some of them.
Some men want women who age gracefully & many Asian women seem
to possess this quality (aversion to the sun has a lot to do with it).
Many Asian women who are born or grew up in N. America do not find
Asian men attractive & white men happen to be the majority. So the
attraction is mutual.
Many Asian women past their child bearing years will try to hook up with
caucasian men since Asian men will not find them attractive anymore.
Asian women who grew up in Asia have a more 'practical' approach on
love. They place emphasis on education, job status & age first.
Personality, looks & sexual attraction is secondary. The downside of this
is that she could be marrying a guy who looks good on paper but there
is no sexual connection (bad in the long run). So even if a guy is considered
a 'nerd' or 'geek' by N. American standards but he possesses certain
professional traits, he's deemed a good catch by an Asian woman.
More than half of my vancouver buddies (white guys) have married asian girls, myself included. I don't think it was a deliberate decision by any of us to pick a certain race. It just sort of happens.
Can Say The Same
when he moved to Vancouver. He's married to an Asian-Can. woman. In
fact he tells me almost all the Asian-Can women he knows are married
to white guys.
Most of my Asian girlfriends are married to white guys. The ones who are
not married yet are seeking mostly white guys. For the older girls, it's not
like they have anything against Asian men but they know that their own
kind generally prefer younger women (preferably young enough to still
have the ability to bear children without medical intervention).
A white friend of mine originally from Europe "discovered" Asian women
when he moved to Vancouver. He's married to an Asian-Can. woman. In
fact he tells me almost all the Asian-Can women he knows are married
to white guys.
Most of my Asian girlfriends are married to white guys. The ones who are
not married yet are seeking mostly white guys. For the older girls, it's not
like they have anything against Asian men but they know that their own
kind generally prefer younger women (preferably young enough to still
have the ability to bear children without medical intervention).
AnAsian/Cdn lady told me that she&her A/C friends dated Caucasian guys cuz
1 gd chance he's got his own apt. by early 20's
2 he knows what a broom&vacuum are
3 he can use an iron
4 he can cook at least a little
5 he is able to wash dishes, or at least, load a dishwasher
6MOST NB....he won't bring a Chinese mother in law into the mix
Now, before I get shat on,pls remember, I'm only repeating what I was told by a Chinese-Cdn lady.
1 gd chance he's got his own apt. by early 20's
2 he knows what a broom&vacuum are
3 he can use an iron
4 he can cook at least a little
5 he is able to wash dishes, or at least, load a dishwasher
6MOST NB....he won't bring a Chinese mother in law into the mix
Now, before I get shat on,pls remember, I'm only repeating what I was told by a Chinese-Cdn lady.
Response to FatBoy
I don't know too many guys (Asians & non Asians) who have their own
apts by their early 20's. Many are still living at home even by their late
20's. Some are saving up for a down payment on a condo. But at least
white guys will make more of an effort to have their own place, regard-
less of their age. It's not uncommom for Asian guys to live at home until
they get married. In fact this practice is not frown upon.
While it may be true of the "older" generation about Asian guys not being
too domesticated, the same cannot be said about Asian guys now. But I
know what you mean. Asian moms spoil their sons & don't expect them
to help out with domestic chores at home since the belief is that once
they get married, their wives will do all the housework & cooking for them.
White guys are more independent. They don't need their mother's approval
to date a girl. Asian mothers like to inspect their son's date first before
giving him the go-ahead. This applies even to those guys who are born or
grew up in Canada.
I don't know too many guys (Asians & non Asians) who have their own
apts by their early 20's. Many are still living at home even by their late
20's. Some are saving up for a down payment on a condo. But at least
white guys will make more of an effort to have their own place, regard-
less of their age. It's not uncommom for Asian guys to live at home until
they get married. In fact this practice is not frown upon.
While it may be true of the "older" generation about Asian guys not being
too domesticated, the same cannot be said about Asian guys now. But I
know what you mean. Asian moms spoil their sons & don't expect them
to help out with domestic chores at home since the belief is that once
they get married, their wives will do all the housework & cooking for them.
White guys are more independent. They don't need their mother's approval
to date a girl. Asian mothers like to inspect their son's date first before
giving him the go-ahead. This applies even to those guys who are born or
grew up in Canada.
This is an interesting point. Should such a woman end up marrying a North American caucasian man, then their relationship sounds like it could be set up for a terrible mismatch. North American men, in my opinion, want at some level romance and sexuality and physical attractiveness in a mate. If the woman he marries does not value romance and sexuality, and does not care about his physical attractiveness - but rather values his earning power and education more, then I can see problems arising.
The successful Asian woman / Caucasian man pairings I have seen are when the Asian woman is a North-Americanized one (preferably born here), rather than a recent import (ie: less than 15 years). Even Asian women who have been here for a long time still retain old habits and values that can be highly incompatible with a North American mate. And it makes sense that some Asian women born in North America would be attracted to a white male: it has to do with acceptance as a full citizen in the predominant society of caucasians - for subconsciously the Asian woman would see her background as a hindrance, and her Asian male counterparts as inferior. Unfortunate that this would be the case, and they would likely deny it. But it's true that's how they truly feel about it.
I have a few caucasian friends who marry filipino,korean, etc and these gals can barely speak english. It seems to me communication isnt even key in their relationship. Some white guys just want someone loyal , good housewife, and not bitchy.
If you look you can find Asian SPs with amazing racks. There aren't too many but they are around.Personally, I guess I cannot be grouped into that category. I have only been with a couple of Asian ladies when I was in my early twenties at a massage place in Richmond.
To be crass, I like boobs and ass too much and I've rarely found an Asian girl with a nice round ass and big breasts who wasn't overweight. I know, I know, probably an ignorant comment
Although I'm not as attracted to asian women as I am to caucasians I do like how well "put together" they are. Even middle aged women are very firm.
However, I'd disagree with the idea that there isn't a difference in attitude. Not everyone is like this but many really know how to treat you like a king.
Well the "ladies" hate it when men act that very same way, and I would imagine the female you're speaking of is like that. It's pretty typical. By the way, that's not a lady you're speaking of. That's a bitch.
Your idea about asian guys isn't really true...
I've dated many asian girls before and you know what, lots of asian girls are spoiled too, especially chinese gals. They expect men to do everything for them saying their daddys do every domestic chores from cooking to cleaning at home. It's really hard to say I like asian girls in general as girls in each and every country in asia can be entirely different in terms of their looks and characteristics. However, I've found one thing in common in asian women is they tend to have some tight down there, and maybe thats why I tend to get attracted to asian girls.
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I've dated many asian girls before and you know what, lots of asian girls are spoiled too, especially chinese gals. They expect men to do everything for them saying their daddys do every domestic chores from cooking to cleaning at home. It's really hard to say I like asian girls in general as girls in each and every country in asia can be entirely different in terms of their looks and characteristics. However, I've found one thing in common in asian women is they tend to have some tight down there, and maybe thats why I tend to get attracted to asian girls.
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