My problem is not the conversation itself but how to move from that to sex. I don't ever have that issue with women I date, things just...move/progress naturally- no expectation, no time limit, but when you pay for 1 hour and the clock is ticking and you've already been chatting for 20 minutes, you start to feel the pressure- and then when your clumsy attempt at moving things to the intimate level fail to register, you start to feel real awkward. In the end it comes down to saying, "Okay shall we get comfy?" or something like that, but if I have to get to that point, my mood has been spoiled already- the fantasy has been shattered.
I've been lucky so far that most of the great ladies I meet up with are very very good at smooth transitioning, but that's also why my last experience, the one with Catelyn 7444, was such a lacking experience.
Personally, though I understand why SPs need to talk and establish connection on that first date, I also feel that if that is the case, then there should be a reduction , or something, in the rate during the conversation. If lawyers and psychologists give free assessment/first sessions, and martial art schools give a few free lessons to get things going, I don't see why a SP gets to charge me full price for the 30 mins she needs in order to feel comfortable. I remember phing up this agency once and they told me in order to see their girls I have to agree to an assessment/interview, which I was fine with until she said the assessment would cost me $150. ....!!!! For $150 I better at least get a handjob during the interview!!!
