Sugar daddy website

[Ned Flanders]

I apparently do not get out much. I have an attractive female friend who is 24, who posted a profile on sugar daddy.com or whatever and within a day had 7 or 8 responses from guys in both bc and the states offering pretty large amounts of cash to hire her as their sugar baby. One guy offered $4000 a month to be a girlfriend on retainer. A couple of others from the states were willing to fly here just to meet her, and were offering a couple of thousand for two hour meetings, with more to come if they hit it off.

I am a bit skeptical. Is this to be expected?

 

[Holly Taylor]

It's very possible she will find a good sugar daddy relationship on this website. However, there are a lot of "time wasters." Many of the people offering money aren't serious. I think perhaps they are just on the site to explore fantasies, rather than pursue/create a real situation.

Just help your friend out by being supportive and making sure she stays safe

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

It's very possible she will find a good sugar daddy relationship on this website. However, there are a lot of "time wasters." Many of the people offering money aren't serious. I think perhaps they are just on the site to explore fantasies, rather than pursue/create a real situation.

Just help your friend out by being supportive and making sure she stays safe

I've been down that path many times and there are just as many time wasters on both sides of this arrangement. But if you can find a relationship that works, it can be a very special arrangement.

 

[Ned Flanders]

It sounds like she found an arrangement after a few misadventures. Apparently, there were some timewasters and some others who were not particularly nice. Interestingly, she claims that this isn't an "arrangement" but a genuine love match. Call me a cynic, but the weekend on his yacht was probably not immaterial.

I was still surprised at the number of guys into this. While I never had any major issues paying for sex, the idea of paying for a relationship just seems really wrong to me.

 

[treveller]

I expect most people pay something for a relationship whether they see it that way on not. Whether it's money or something else may not matter so much. You just hope the benefits are greater than the costs.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

It sounds like she found an arrangement after a few misadventures. Apparently, there were some timewasters and some others who were not particularly nice. Interestingly, she claims that this isn't an "arrangement" but a genuine love match. Call me a cynic, but the weekend on his yacht was probably not immaterial.

I was still surprised at the number of guys into this. While I never had any major issues paying for sex, the idea of paying for a relationship just seems really wrong to me.

Well I'm into it and I have a different perspective.

I've been seeing a beautiful young woman for 5 years and yes I give her money and yes we have sex, we sometimes have lunches together etc. Basically I enjoy her company and I enjoy helping her out. I consider this more or a less a friends with benefits type of relationship because I think that describes it best.

As for paying for a relationship, try getting married, relatively speaking this is a far, far less costly way of "paying" for a relationship.

Point is you always pay to be in a relationship of some kind. If you have kids you pay to raise them, put them in sports, etc. So it's a question of degree and what you feel you're getting in return.

 

[Ned Flanders]

I guess everyone is different. If the underpinning of the relationship is a market transaction, then it does not seem excessively secure to me. As well, I think I would probably get attached to the other person over time, and given the other person's motivations, I think the ending would not feel very good.

I was actually married, and I think getting out was the expensive part! In any event, that relationship had its foundations in attraction and friendship. Neither party hired the other.

 

[newatit]

Is there a web site one of us could go to and find out how many sugar daddy guys an SP has. With a good act, I think a few guys could be supporting one SP.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Is there a web site one of us could go to and find out how many sugar daddy guys an SP has. With a good act, I think a few guys could be supporting one SP.

i talked to one recently who used the term 'princess'. she quite openly declared that it would take several kings to keep a princess in the style that she would have liked to become accustomed to - and at $1500 - $2000/mo minimum i could have become one of those kings

a little rich for my budget, but whatever floats your boat...

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

I guess everyone is different. If the underpinning of the relationship is a market transaction, then it does not seem excessively secure to me. As well, I think I would probably get attached to the other person over time, and given the other person's motivations, I think the ending would not feel very good.

I was actually married, and I think getting out was the expensive part! In any event, that relationship had its foundations in attraction and friendship. Neither party hired the other.

At it's best it may start out focusing on money, but over time you really do become friends and you really do want to help each other succeed, when that happens the circumstances in which you met cease to matter. It really is a relationship that requires a high level of respect from both parties.

In some ways I feel that because I only have one child, I can afford to help this single mother out and we can both still have fun, so it's a win-win situation. And after knowing each other for 5 years, the sex is amazing!

One thing I did learn is that we stopped seeing each other for about a year and trust me trying to replace that type of relationship was extremely hard, in fact as it turned out it couldn't be duplicated. It's hard to find two people on this type of wave length who you can trust and who both have the time to commit to meeting each other when both have busy lives and both require discretion.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

i talked to one recently who used the term 'princess'. she quite openly declared that it would take several kings to keep a princess in the style that she would have liked to become accustomed to - and at $1500 - $2000/mo minimum i could have become one of those kings

a little rich for my budget, but whatever floats your boat...

You have to run, not walk from anyone with an attitude like that. From my experience, the best SB's are students or single mom's. Both tend to be hard working and view this only as supplimental income, rather than an occupation.

 

[Ned Flanders]

Fortunately, a few other posters have experience with this. I am still a bit flabbergasted at the whole concept.

In any event, if anyone told me the whole princess line, where I could have the chance to be one of the kings I would set a world record for speed while heading for the exit!

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I apparently do not get out much. I have an attractive female friend who is 24, who posted a profile on sugar daddy.com or whatever and within a day had 7 or 8 responses from guys in both bc and the states offering pretty large amounts of cash to hire her as their sugar baby. One guy offered $4000 a month to be a girlfriend on retainer. A couple of others from the states were willing to fly here just to meet her, and were offering a couple of thousand for two hour meetings, with more to come if they hit it off.

I am a bit skeptical. Is this to be expected?

Fortunately, a few other posters have experience with this. I am still a bit flabbergasted at the whole concept.

In any event, if anyone told me the whole princess line, where I could have the chance to be one of the kings I would set a world record for speed while heading for the exit!

lol, i didn't set a world record, but the exit is where i ended up!

btw, regarding your original post, you wouldn't happen to have any contact info would you... :eyebrows:

 

[CLIT COMMANDER]

Fortunately, a few other posters have experience with this. I am still a bit flabbergasted at the whole concept.

In any event, if anyone told me the whole princess line, where I could have the chance to be one of the kings I would set a world record for speed while heading for the exit!

Agreed!! this topic always interests me as I personally just don't understand why men would enjoy this that much! most men here are pooners and therefore have no reason to see the same person over and over. i have met a few woman whom i have seen more than once and always enjoy seeing them but eventually it will fade. for both of us! sometimes you have to run as you may actually start to like the lady a bit too much! not a great idea in the SP world!

and i always am intrigued to hear stories of men buying lavish gifts! it appears these guys beleive they are in love with the woman and that gifts will make her love him!!! even though they are aware she sees many other men!

oh well i guess the world would be boring if we were all the same!!! i do love the stories!!!

happy Summer Perbites!!!

 

[sevenofnine]

nothing is free in life.
and well the more money you have and established you are surprise surprise its very easy to attract beautiful women.
and you always pay no matter what kind of relationship is you always pay.

im not that rich but i found some one, or a sugar baby.
and i guess that is the best way to decribe it, an sp client relationship but with only one or two clients.
more relaxing then a regular sp in that you can enjoy suppers shopping drinks etc, and your not paying on a per hour basis
and it can be fun. and interesting.
its more of a relatinship, then with your regular sp, though i have been with my sp so long, it feels like im in one with her.

which can be a good thing or a bad thing

 

[Ned Flanders]

I can understand tipping or the odd small gift, but handing over something lavish or large amounts of cash to a SP seems really weird unless you have managed to convince yourself you are in a relationship other than just being a regular. I guess this would be considered to be a relationship with a sugar baby who has an active social life........

 

[island-guy]

It is certainly true that there are lots of time wasters on the female side on that site. Girls who are basically looking for a regular relationship but want the guy to be rich, young and look like Brad Pitt.

I can't remember the number of times that I've said to a girl: "Look, I'm smart, rich, generous, healthy, nice and single. If I also looked like Brad Pitt, why would I be here? I'd be with Angelina Jolie"

I've had a LOT more success finding a Sugarbabe by just checking out some activities at a local university.

I generally stick with a sugarbabe for a number of years, until she graduates and moves on.

I've had sugar babes who only went with me on trips and lived far away and I've had others who lived with me and spent each night sleeping in my bed for 5+ years (she had her own room in residence for when her parents visited, but she never stayed there).

 

[Man Mountain]

i talked to one recently who used the term 'princess'. she quite openly declared that it would take several kings to keep a princess in the style that she would have liked to become accustomed to - and at $1500 - $2000/mo minimum i could have become one of those kings

 

[sevenofnine]

of course your in a relationship with your sp.

just the same as im in a relationship with my wife for thirty years.
one is easier to end then the other, or perhaps you have more invested in then with your sp or some one you pick up in a bar.
or maybe one means more you have kids or love or companionship.
maybe your sp is just a good fuck, or maybe she is some one you talk to, and enjoy her company. either way if you see her more then once your in some kind of relationship,
just how much value you put on it or what kind of value you put on it is up to you.

and even though im not rich, i pay my sps well, and im generous.
most likely a stupid thing to do, because i don't ask for anything extra or expect.

its just the way i am.
if and when i go on holidays i enjoy myself and don't go for the cheapest hotels and fast food places. i don't skimp at all. i like to sample whatever the region has to offer in terms of food and tours hotels etc. if i can't afford it stay at home,

same with my sp. i don't book the shortest time, i bring booze sometimes we get food, but we enjoy our self hopefully she does to.
but i don't sit at home and count my pennies and wonder who is the the cheapest sp i can get for the shortest length of time.

if i can't afford it i stay at home. if i can i go to enjoy myself. which to me means something to drink relax even food. as well as sex

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

of course your in a relationship with your sp.

just the same as im in a relationship with my wife for thirty years.
one is easier to end then the other, or perhaps you have more invested in then with your sp or some one you pick up in a bar.
or maybe one means more you have kids or love or companionship.
maybe your sp is just a good fuck, or maybe she is some one you talk to, and enjoy her company. either way if you see her more then once your in some kind of relationship,
just how much value you put on it or what kind of value you put on it is up to you.

and even though im not rich, i pay my sps well, and im generous.
most likely a stupid thing to do, because i don't ask for anything extra or expect.

its just the way i am.
if and when i go on holidays i enjoy myself and don't go for the cheapest hotels and fast food places. i don't skimp at all. i like to sample whatever the region has to offer in terms of food and tours hotels etc. if i can't afford it stay at home,

same with my sp. i don't book the shortest time, i bring booze sometimes we get food, but we enjoy our self hopefully she does to.
but i don't sit at home and count my pennies and wonder who is the the cheapest sp i can get for the shortest length of time.

if i can't afford it i stay at home. if i can i go to enjoy myself. which to me means something to drink relax even food. as well as sex

You can write most of this to living the good life. I know the SB I see I treat her as well as my budget allows. Unfortunately for me, my budget is very modest, but fortunately for me, she doesn't seem to mind. Sometimes it's the little things that matter. for example she e-mailed all her friend when her 2 year old niece fell under a lawnmower and lost her thumb and index figure. I gave her sister (through her) $500 to help out with the situation, and I'm sure she appreciated it.