SP Sex - How Does It Rate On Your Scale?
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Nope! Had great sex and crappy sex on both sides of the fence. Now, if you had worded the question a little differently and said "women you've loved" versus "casual sex" I would totally agree. But hey, that wasn't your question.MrDaty said:
I've had two lovers for whom I think the sex was off the scale in terms of being fabulous. One was a woman I was seeing in a relationship, and one was/is my ATF SP. Beyond that I've had good and bad sex ... both in relationships and with sp's.
But off the charts amazing ... that's rarer. I think it really does depend on chemistry ... and at the end of the day whether you're paying for it doesn't necessarily matter for chemistry to happen.
Tom
But off the charts amazing ... that's rarer. I think it really does depend on chemistry ... and at the end of the day whether you're paying for it doesn't necessarily matter for chemistry to happen.
Tom
the best sex is always where you have some feelings (and chemistry) for someone ...MrDaty said:
there have been some great times with sp's and i will honestly admit that most sp's have been better looking than most women i have dated so that has been a treat ...
but stuff that i have had done to me by girlfriends was way off the menu of what most sp's would ever consider so its not fair to compare.
sp's got me through a really, really rough time in my life and for that all i can say is thanks ...
My thoughts
Perhaps a better survey would be just how much others enjoy a second, third, fourth or fifteenth session with the same SP vs. the first sessions with numerous different SP's.
I would have to agree that the women in an average man's private life (relationships) inspire better sexual experiences but I think it is a product of how many times they've been with that woman, and how much emotion they have invested there. It isn't a reflection of any of the wonderful SP's in our community not being capable of just the same sexual highs with men they date steadily in their own lives.
Hope this clarifies somehow.
MrDaty said:
Perhaps a better survey would be just how much others enjoy a second, third, fourth or fifteenth session with the same SP vs. the first sessions with numerous different SP's.
I would have to agree that the women in an average man's private life (relationships) inspire better sexual experiences but I think it is a product of how many times they've been with that woman, and how much emotion they have invested there. It isn't a reflection of any of the wonderful SP's in our community not being capable of just the same sexual highs with men they date steadily in their own lives.
Hope this clarifies somehow.
I would have to agree. I've had great sex with the woman in my private life and the SP's that I see regularly. Familiarity and comfort go a long way in making the the experience more enjoyable.SeekSteadyRegSP said:
If the SP feels really comfortable with you and enjoys your company,the better your session. This only happens with time and regular visits. I can honestly say that my experiences have always gotten better with all the SP's that I have seen more than once.SeekSteadyRegSP said:
I totally concord with both Seeksteady and Aeiyah. You can only experience the true beauty from the same woman after a few sessions . So you can't judge from a one night stand point of view! 
From my experiences, after about 6 months, no matter how I felt about her or the emotional connection, how she looked or what she did, the last thing I wanted to do on a regular occasion was bang my own old lady. I know it sounds like shit, and it really says a lot more about me sexually than it does them sexually or otherwise but that's how I've felt in every single relationship I've had.
So how many guys fantasize about someone else (model, actress, someone they know, pornstar, co-worker etc) when doing they're wife or GF?
So how many guys fantasize about someone else (model, actress, someone they know, pornstar, co-worker etc) when doing they're wife or GF?
I think many of us have different perspectives.MrDaty said:
For me, sex is about closeness and sharing something between each other.
When I am in a relationship, I remain faithful - that is just my way and it now seems less common than I thought.
I agree with the other poster, that my girlfriends are not always as physically attractive as the women I have elected to see here.
However, once in a good relationship - the attraction becomes far greater that mere physical looks.
SPs are filling a desire of mine right now, and that is to touch, caress, talk to & have sex with some very beautiful women while I have this free time.
Having sex with a beutiful woman is still a great thing
Unfortunately - though it is great to have these beautiful women, I must say that it is just not the same. Certainly fills a carnal need for me though.
Sex with a true partner was always about more than just sex, that and it was restrictions free and no condom at all - these all add up to a far better sexual experience to me.
I love seeing these beautiful ladies, but I also look forward to geting back into a fantastic relationship.
I agree these points with you but not everything. You are right about the fact that a true relationship out-weight any sp for fulfillment temporarily.TantheMan said:I think many of us have different perspectives.
For me, sex is about closeness and sharing something between each other.
When I am in a relationship, I remain faithful - that is just my way and it now seems less common than I thought.
SPs are filling a desire of mine right now, and that is to touch, caress, talk to & have sex with some very beautiful women while I have this free time.
Having sex with a beutiful woman is still a great thing
Sex with a true partner was always about more than just sex,
I love seeing these beautiful ladies, but I also look forward to geting back into a fantastic relationship.
Originally Posted by MrDaty
For me the SP thing is an on-again off-again life long thing to fill in the gaps but the most incredible sex was with the women in your private life. Do you guys concur....
Originally Posted by LisaGigglezyou have sex with women in other mens private lives?
:O slut!
Lisa – good catch…. But no one seems to have understood your comment….
What MrDaty actually said was –
the most incredible sex [for Mrdaty] was with the women in your private life [the women in the reader’s private life…in other words your GF].
Mr Daty did you mean to say…
For me the SP thing is an on-again off-again life long thing to fill in the gaps but the most incredible sex was with the women in MY private life. Do you guys concur....
Or maybe he really did mean the best sex he had was with your GF...if so can we get a review with contact info.
For me the SP thing is an on-again off-again life long thing to fill in the gaps but the most incredible sex was with the women in your private life. Do you guys concur....
Originally Posted by LisaGigglezyou have sex with women in other mens private lives?
:O slut!
Lisa – good catch…. But no one seems to have understood your comment….
What MrDaty actually said was –
the most incredible sex [for Mrdaty] was with the women in your private life [the women in the reader’s private life…in other words your GF].
Mr Daty did you mean to say…
For me the SP thing is an on-again off-again life long thing to fill in the gaps but the most incredible sex was with the women in MY private life. Do you guys concur....
Or maybe he really did mean the best sex he had was with your GF...if so can we get a review with contact info.
Sex is just better with someone you
a) trust
b) respect
c) care for
d) share chemistry
I've had GF's where all this didn't apply and been with SP's where it did....I think when you're with someone you love there is more than just sex which makes it better all round....but as far as sex goes...YMMV
a) trust
b) respect
c) care for
d) share chemistry
I've had GF's where all this didn't apply and been with SP's where it did....I think when you're with someone you love there is more than just sex which makes it better all round....but as far as sex goes...YMMV
