I find even with my "advanced years" I still have a strong sex drive. For myself, if/ when possible, I like to have sex at least 4 or 5 days per week. In my head this seems like a lot. Anyone else care to share?
Sex, How Often?
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I told my wife that I must be Bi-sexual.
She replies “What”?
Yes, doesn’t that mean twice a year!?!
Interesting - please define "advanced years" in order to obtain relevant comments.
We really should have our ages posted next to our username. I'm mid 50's. 54 to be exact.
I’m 56. Four or 5 days a week sounds like a lot to me. I’d be happy with 2 maybe 3 sometimes (which is way more then I’m actually getting right now).
Hey brother if you’re getting it 4 or 5 times a week then you the Man!
Hey brother if you’re getting it 4 or 5 times a week then you the Man!
I’m 48 and do heavy compound lifting so it keeps me young, enthusiastic, and all the right hormones flowing.
When I’m a relationship twice a day. Once on waking before work,, and once before going to bed. Usually
When I’m a relationship twice a day. Once on waking before work,, and once before going to bed. Usually
Thanks for the chuckle, guys. I will not be age specific, but all my children are older than everyone who has replied so far. I have admitted on here that the "sixty" has not applied to me for a long time - just kept a once convenient handle.
In terms of numbers, four or five days a week works for me, but sometimes it is only three. I have the good fortune to have a superb partner of many years who has not lost interest. Yes, if you read through my posts, I have seen escorts once in a while - with my partner's knowledge. She knows I have a psychological defect, but at least there is no "relationship" with an escort.
In terms of numbers, four or five days a week works for me, but sometimes it is only three. I have the good fortune to have a superb partner of many years who has not lost interest. Yes, if you read through my posts, I have seen escorts once in a while - with my partner's knowledge. She knows I have a psychological defect, but at least there is no "relationship" with an escort.
Wow that’s incredible
Same age, and while I think about it / want it twice a day , I’m lucky if physically I’d be able to do it more than twice a week.
Maybe a gotta change my workout / supplements LOL
At least once a week, but generally as much as possible 🙂Wow that’s incredible
Same age, and while I think about it / want it twice a day , I’m lucky if physically I’d be able to do it more than twice a week.
Maybe a gotta change my workout / supplements LOL
I guess in general twice a week.
I'd have more if I had the budget.
I'm pushing 60 and in average shape for my age.
I feel blessed to have a good sex life as many of my friends and colleagues seem to have little or no sex life with some even given up on it completely ☹
You not too old your testosterone still being produce in body so is sex drive.
be happy!
I just took a break from having sex to write this.
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I haven't had sex in about 26 months; I think the last time I had sex was in January 2020 with an SP in Burnaby. I haven't had sex with my wife for longer than that. We love each other and care about each other, but there's no sex.
In 2007-08, I had an affair with a girl 20 years younger than me. She was a college student in the U.S., so it was a long distance affair. But she traveled on two different occasions to see me (I know, it's usually men who travel to see lovers; in my case, it was opposite). I was working in a different town and family was in Vancouver.
We had sex every single day she was with me, multiple times day. The record was 7 times in 24 hours the evening she arrived from the U.S. It was wild, yes. I think the average was about 3-4 times a day -- always at night when going to bed, then again in the middle of the night, then in the morning as we woke up, and during the lunch time, and sometimes in the later afternoon or early evening.
She's married now and we have no direct contact anymore, but we check out each other on Instagram; I know cuz you know who views your Instagram stories and she always sees mine.
I miss her, yes; but I wouldn't leave my wife for anyone. Not even for my favorite SP. Of course, I'll start seeing SPs when the masking and social distancing eases.😷
In 2007-08, I had an affair with a girl 20 years younger than me. She was a college student in the U.S., so it was a long distance affair. But she traveled on two different occasions to see me (I know, it's usually men who travel to see lovers; in my case, it was opposite). I was working in a different town and family was in Vancouver.
We had sex every single day she was with me, multiple times day. The record was 7 times in 24 hours the evening she arrived from the U.S. It was wild, yes. I think the average was about 3-4 times a day -- always at night when going to bed, then again in the middle of the night, then in the morning as we woke up, and during the lunch time, and sometimes in the later afternoon or early evening.
She's married now and we have no direct contact anymore, but we check out each other on Instagram; I know cuz you know who views your Instagram stories and she always sees mine.
I miss her, yes; but I wouldn't leave my wife for anyone. Not even for my favorite SP. Of course, I'll start seeing SPs when the masking and social distancing eases.
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I'd get it as often as I could, cause I'm practically starved for affection.
Not even with yourself or are you not counting that. Hand Central Station is a real place 💪
What you married gents might be surprised to find is that if you were single again tomorrow a lot of you would be suprised how often your body would be up for sex again.
I was married once, in another lifetime, and I thought my libido had semi retired. But after my marriage fell apart and I found myself single again wow what a surprise. Going out w all these new women will resurrect your sex drive lickitysplit. New back stories, new personalities, new faces, new places that they introduce you to, new skin, you get the idea.
Only problem is it will take you a while to get your mojo back so there is almost guaranteed to be a short period of pretty much pure sexual frustration in between. Of course by then the inevitable weight loss will have caught up and you’ll finally start turning heads again.
Problem is after 5-10 years you’ll start to get sick of all the dating games, never ending chasing, need to always be “ on “ etc, and find yourself longing for the days when you had a women who loved you unconditionally even if the sex had died down.
I’ve personally come to believe there is no such thing as perfect, and anyone who tells you they have it all is either lying to you, or themselves.
I was married once, in another lifetime, and I thought my libido had semi retired. But after my marriage fell apart and I found myself single again wow what a surprise. Going out w all these new women will resurrect your sex drive lickitysplit. New back stories, new personalities, new faces, new places that they introduce you to, new skin, you get the idea.
Only problem is it will take you a while to get your mojo back so there is almost guaranteed to be a short period of pretty much pure sexual frustration in between. Of course by then the inevitable weight loss will have caught up and you’ll finally start turning heads again.
Problem is after 5-10 years you’ll start to get sick of all the dating games, never ending chasing, need to always be “ on “ etc, and find yourself longing for the days when you had a women who loved you unconditionally even if the sex had died down.
I’ve personally come to believe there is no such thing as perfect, and anyone who tells you they have it all is either lying to you, or themselves.
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Seeing SPs is perfect. <3
