Seeking Arrangements/Sugar Daddy - Any Experiences ??

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Whether or not this site is full of such people is irrelevant. You first argued:



And I just demolished your above argument. Very wealthy people can be and indeed are stupid with money, and it means fuck all to them. Everything is relative, genius.

Wow, you get bitter when somebody calls a spade a spade, don't you You've demolished nothing, in fact, arguing with a genius like me just makes you look like a sucker and a fool. By the way, I'll sell you this 100 dollar bill that I have for 1000. Pay up sucka. It means fuck all to you afterall

 

[bcneil]

something that always must be remembered when using the internet, and forums...

1. Everyone is very rich
2. All the men are top notch fighters, with several black belts.
3. Everyman has a large penis, and very good in bed.
4. Everyman can get any women he wants.

 

[doglips]

5. Every guy is instantly hard and can go for hours
6. With a little spit and polish every guy is ready to go again for hours mere minutes after cumming

 

[trackstar]

something that always must be remembered when using the internet, and forums...

1. Everyone is very rich
2. All the men are top notch fighters, with several black belts.
3. Everyman has a large penis, and very good in bed.
4. Everyman can get any women he wants.
5. Every guy is instantly hard and can go for hours
6. With a little spit and polish every guy is ready to go again for hours mere minutes after cumming

HAHAHA!!!! You guys rock!

I'm a little bit of #1,2, more of #3, alot of #4 (just cuz there's not anyone I really want right now, so that makes it pretty easy), the first half of #5 and remember the days of #6!

 

[Yackityyak]

Just wanted to clarify one thing. Mr bro's girlfriend was in the sugar babe relationship a couple of months before they met so there's no indication that she was unfaithful. I told my brother over the weekend not to be a winey prude and be a man. She's worth holding onto. Guess that not everyone can be as enlightened as all of us on this board !!

 

[trackstar]

My sugar daddy relationship was definitely more than bedroom activities, and should always be that way. My sugar daddy was also a business mentor for me. I learned so much during my time spent with him.

As for the compensation, it varies. Some people are compensated with cash, some with gifts, and some both. I was compensated with cash as I need to pay my rent, tuition, etc.. But for the woman or man that can pay for that, but just wants to feel spoiled once in a while, gifts are the better option.

In contrast to the reviews that this site offers, the sugar babe/daddy relationship taught me that you cannot figure out how to please someone and make the other satified with one encounter. It took a while to figure out what my sugar dad liked, and vice versa. In the end of it all, my first ever orgasm was achieved with my sugar daddy

So that is different from a gold digger looking for a wealthy boyfriend how? This is meant to be a question, not an insult at all btw. Just curious about the distinction.

 

[doglips]

gold digger
noun informal

a person who dates others purely to extract money from them, in particular a woman who strives to marry a wealthy man.

So perhaps it's the deception and possibility of permanence (as long as the well doesn't run dry ) that distinguishes a gold digger from the SD/SB relationship.

And oh yeah I guess a man could never be a gold digger...

 

[trackstar]

And oh yeah I guess a man could never be a gold digger...

I hope to make a large salary when I am fully in the working world. Preferably more than my partner. I would not mind if he was a gold digger. Just as long as he is smart enough to take care of my needs and I have a bullet-proof prenuptial agreement in the case that he is really stupid [/QUOTE]

Keep me posted

 

[Violet]

Sugar daddies...

So the GF was a whore for a guy last summer. She may very well do it again. If that's okay with your brother, no more about it.

BUT she hid this little business venture from him, knowing full well he would likely not approve. She can do what she wants, but deception does not bode well for the relationship. Odds are high there will be a lot more of hiding of whatever (far exceeding just sexual encounters) in the future with this girl.

She's obviously not trustworthy. Tell your brother to dump her.

Hey Yack,

If you're serious about trying it why not just ask your brother's gf. If she was OK doing it once I'm sure she'll do it again. Maybe you'll get a family discount.

Um, didn't the orig poster say that that was not what he was asking about or discussing?

But, just to put in my 2 cents: Do you guys honestly think if she was planning on doing it again while in a relationship she would have told him?? Why would she even bother telling him? (other than because she wanted to be honest about everything, including her past?) I think I agree with the orig poster that she shouldn't have told him, since it is in the past & I'm sure he doesn't tell her about everything in his past, (such as all the women he had sex with, the sps he saw, or the woman that he bought gifts for in order to woo her). And when people react with these assumptions, it really doesn't encourage honesty.

Anyway... my thoughts of the sugar daddy situation are: be careful to avoid getting ripped off etc, meet the person first, & both people should be very clear on the expectations - these situations & what's involved can vary greatly.

Some sps may be willing to do this kind of thing, which would be a good way to be able to get to know them a bit first, but some aren't, so if a girl says no don't pester her endlessly about it. I've had clients offer this kind of thing, but in some cases what they basically wanted was a full-time girlfriend for hire, & a lot of us have our own lives & wouldn't have time for this kind of thing, or are afraid of possible complications, such as the client confusing fantasy with reality & getting far too attached. Another problem is guys thinking that they can pay a small amount of money & the woman will be at their beck-&-call for daily sex. Or they might expect you to stop working as an SP, or not have a boyfriend.

Especially if you don't know the woman, perhaps at first it may be a good idea to, rather than paying a large monthly fee up-front, start with a few hundred bucks here & there & see if you are even compatible. Perhaps you could do something like offer to spend an evening with the lady & assure her that you would pay for everything & give a gift of some extra money for her time?

Another note, "sugar daddy/babe" arrangements do not always include sex. Some people define a sugar daddy as someone who gives regular gifts &/or money solely to spend time with the lady or because he wants to support a beautiful young woman or improve her life. (Yes guys like these DO exist & are not necessarily "stupid"). For some, a sugar daddy who the woman has sex with is not a true sugar daddy & is a "client", albeit a very regular client who gets a discounted rate, is not on the clock & is perhaps also a friend.
So this kind of thing (as while as the greatly varying "rates") is why it's important to dicuss the expectations of each person involved.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

I've gone down the sugar daddy path and like any relationship it has its ups and downs. As to whether or not they end up in "disasters" as Dood put it, this depends on two things.

One is expectations. If someone's expectations either change or isn't met somewhere along the line one of the parties will get hurt.

Secondly, if you can't pay the price, you're definately going to get hurt. The price isn't money, it's that if you have an SO and they find out about this relationship, there's going to be fall out. One always hopes it will never happen, but be prepared if it does.

As for the money aspect of it, I have two schools of thought. I've loaned my SB money I never got back. The second time she asked me for a loan, which was about a year and a half from the first one, I said sure, but since I know you can't pay it back, consider it a gift. She never really meant to stiff me and it wasn't huge $$, but the fact is she's a single mom, and has ongoing money problems, otherwise she wouldn't be in this type of relationship, and we often go months without seeing each other. So she pays off some bills and more come in..that's life. My view is she's a bit like a daughter in the sense of me helping her out, and bit like a lover when we meet. I view myself as a part-time boyfriend, older brother or perhaps a dad, so helping her out isn't just about sex for your dollar, it's about helping someone out who needs it, is worthy of it, and you don't mind doing it. In fact on some ocassions I enjoy it.

But in general the money aspect is pretty simple. One simply needs to ask themselves, what is the price you're willing to pay for these kind of memories?

The flip-side is she's pretty much always been there for me, and both a friend and a provider and I've seen her countless times over the years and she's drop dead gorgeous. To me, there's something special about having sex with someone who is both gorgeous and you care deeply about. It's more of a complete experience, than a conventional SP relationship, but that's just my opinion.

When I look back on it, I'm more than happy with the arrangement, and to the best of my knowledge she feels the same way.

 

[TheRater]

something that always must be remembered when using the internet, and forums...

1. Everyone is very rich
2. All the men are top notch fighters, with several black belts.
3. Everyman has a large penis, and very good in bed.
4. Everyman can get any women he wants.

5. Every guy is instantly hard and can go for hours
6. With a little spit and polish every guy is ready to go again for hours mere minutes after cumming

7. All arguments are ended by Godwin's Law.

- TR

 

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Pay Up Suckas!

 

[kidstone]

I have a friend who gave it away for free to guys she was friends with, and she was generous to them in other ways, and they treated her like shit.

Part of it is making money for herself, now, but also if a guy gives her cash and presents, then it's like she can trust him a bit. She knows he's not going to use her and leave her. If he does leave--she's got his money and gifts to make her feel better about the whole experience.

I think this is a more honest relationship. Both parties are going into it with their eyes wide open.

 

[Violet]

To me, there's something special about having sex with someone who is both gorgeous and you care deeply about. It's more of a complete experience, than a conventional SP relationship, but that's just my opinion.

If you're going to throw your dough at a woman, just get a very regular SP and work out a deal with her. She'll leave when she's done and you'll never hear back from her unless you want to.

Yes, that's another good suggestion, as I agree that this type of thing can be possible with some SPs. Maybe that's not a "conventional" SP relationship, but it definitely exists & I don't think it's hugely difficult to find. Guys looking for this kind of thing might want to try out some GFEs & if you find one who you like & who seems to feel the same way about you, become a frequent regular & see where it goes, you may find you will enjoy good conversation, activities other than sex, sex that gets progressively better, & develop a friendship & a connection. Doing this with an SP might decrease some of the risks involved in a "Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babe" situation as well, but there's always the risk that one party (often the client in this case) might get more attached than the other & expect more of a relationship than the other can provide. But everything has risks, & for many people the rewards from these relationships outweigh the risks.


(And apparently, contrary to what one poster said to me, not every guy pays a woman SOLELY to "fuck someone younger & hotter than his wife".)