It's about time I did this

[rarefind8]

After reading all the reviews for the last year or so, I felt it is about time to say my peace. So here goes. (I have been a pooner for about 20 years)

I have read good and bad reviews on almost every SP and MP in Vic. Now I would like to say that there is a SP and MP for everyones taste. One persons bad review maybe the others great review. (YMMV) I can personally relate from Gentlemans Choice to Venus(your escort to paradise), Top Hat (which you may recall, brought down a Cabinet Minister in the Prov. Govt.) In the last couple of years I have been sexually disfunctional as I suffer from Peronnies Disease. (Not an STD by the way) My signifcant other whom I truly love does not want anything to do with me sexually. So, when I can, I have to look elsewhere for gratification or do it myself. The latter is not my preferred method. So, I would like to share my top SP'S and MP's with you as these are the ones I have found to be the most understanding.
For SP's:
Seduction Unlimited: See Lyndsy. She is just gorgeous and very understanding.

Classy Cougar Niki: Here you get the most bang for your buck. She doesn't care about your problem and as long as you are good with your tongue she will love you forever.
For MP's
Lucy: What can I say that already hasn't been said. She will rock your world. This Woman will take you to the end.
Sara: Have only seen her once, but here finish is unbelievable.

The last things for me to say is, treat all the women with respect, be freshly showered, as clean as you can be, be willing to share your life with them, as most of them love to talk about where they are from. (Don't we all) For all these persons have different reason for doing what they are doing. Whether it is going to school or trying to make ends meet, we as pooners are the means for them to make a difference in their lives. There is no way in Hell that I will be able to help them all but, if I can spend a little to make a difference I will. Happy New Year to all SP's, MP.s and all the rest of you pooners.
RF8

 

[TawnyBrown]

The last things for me to say is, treat all the women with respect, be freshly showered, as clean as you can be, be willing to share your life with them, as most of them love to talk about where they are from. (Don't we all) For all these persons have different reason for doing what they are doing. Whether it is going to school or trying to make ends meet, we as pooners are the means for them to make a difference in their lives. There is no way in Hell that I will be able to help them all but, if I can spend a little to make a difference I will. Happy New Year to all SP's, MP.s and all the rest of you pooners.
RF8

Oh my...I am stunned and overwhelmed...you are an incredibly sweet, intelligent and compassionate man...I will send a meditation of protection and good fortune your way tonight, dear man. You give true meaning to the word "gentleman"...

Lahra

 

[SoftHandsAnne]

I second TawnyBrown - thank you for your kind words.

 

[VanIsland Lisa]

Mr.rarefind8? Your handle does you justice. What a sweet post. Thanks. I don't know if I ever saw you but I hope I did.
And Tawny Brown? Can you do one of those medatition spells for me? I promise I really need it. Posts like these, make me miss Victoria sooo much & make me wonder if I did the right thing by moving to Van. I have to get back home for a visit! Tell me something, will you guys come see me if my incall is at a Victoria hotel?

 

[BS Detector]

Hey Buddy...Your post took guts and I am glad you too have discovered that many of the ladies are so kind and compassionate and for many of them it not JUST about the money. I have said it over and over only to get flamed over and over but the flaming has not changed my mind. In fact it has opened my eyes even more about the gulf between the ladies and the guys.

Everytime I post something similar, I keep getting responses that it is a review board (like a broken record, skipping CD to you younger folk) but yet no one has explained how that makes it OK to treat the ladies like a piece of meat and not like the ladies they are. Maybe you will get through in a way that I have been unable to and guys will realize it is all about how you treat a lady and not about the equipment you possess. The size etc of your equipment and looks are not accomplishments but are God given attributes, nothing to be proud of. Ones attitude, cleanliness etc are what sets one person part from another when it comes to accomplishment and those are the things to take pride in a those are thing we actually went out and had control over and did.

 

[TawnyBrown]

And Tawny Brown? Can you do one of those medatition spells for me? I promise I really need it.

Consider it done! If you come back to Victoria for a visit, give me a pm if you want, sweetie...and I'm sure you'll give the locals reasons to miss you when you leave again...

BS Detector, I always feel like I'm intruding on the "pooner's" territory when I do posts like this, but at the risk at being flamed, cannot a review board allow the SP's/phone girls/other men to "review" a gentleman's positive feedback and attitude by just giving an acknowledgment? You guys are spending good money and treating the women so wonderfully, don't you deserve at least that much?

Sighhhh...just a thought...

Lahra

 

[BS Detector]

cannot a review board allow the SP's/phone girls/other men to "review" a gentleman's positive feedback and attitude by just giving an acknowledgment?

First of all, please don't feel you're intruding and no worries about being flamed from me Now...Maybe I'm tired but I don't understand your question, sorry

 

[Walk Softly]

Kudos

Well said rf8 and BSD. Flaming a girl just because she wasn't what you expected only shows a lack of class on our part. Almost all of the ladies I've encountered have been sincere about providing good service to me. It hasn't always been what I expected and sometime fell short of what I wanted but in (oh so clear) hindsight it was what was advertised. Would I flame someone for ripping me off or false advertising?...ABSOLUTELY but I've yet to encounter either one in Victoria. (TOUCHING WOOD!) The ladies I've spent time with here have been sweet and I don't regret a penny I spent. CHEERS LADIES! W.S.

 

[Lurker 123]

Everytime I post something similar, I keep getting responses that it is a review board ) but yet no one has explained how that makes it OK to treat the ladies like a piece of meat and not like the ladies they are. Maybe you will get through in a way that I have been unable to and guys will realize it is all about how you treat a lady and not about the equipment you possess. The size etc of your equipment and looks are not accomplishments but are God given attributes, nothing to be proud of. Ones attitude, cleanliness etc are what sets one person part from another when it comes to accomplishment and those are the things to take pride in a those are thing we actually went out and had control over and did.

This is a very valid point here! From time to time some reviews make my hair stand. It was too explicit to describe how the dude exploit the ladies in many different sexual ways. I believe whatever one does in the bedroom have a certain amount of intimacy between the two person!

Some ladies (not everyone) will prefer a certain amount of discretion what they have done with their clients or loyal clients.They won't want the whole world to know. So there is a certain amount of trust!However when a client explicitly describes the sexual acts between the two to show off or to gain some attention from the forum. The trust between the lady and the client in a way is terminated.IMHO ,a review doesn't have to explicitly describe those intimate acts,unless it is a request from the lady! Don't get me wrong. Some ladies do want to have an explicit review!

From time to time, some people complaint why they have so much difficulties to book an appointment with a certain ladies ,especially with some of the famous one. IMHO,I believe these ladies have found out who have participated in such a discussion and have tried their best to avoid these clients.

So guys if one wants to have a good time or especially want to be a regular of a certain ladies, show some discretion in our reviews! The ladies will appreciate it!

 

[rarefind8]

This is a very valid point here! From time to time some reviews make my hair stand. It was too explicit to describe how the dude exploit the ladies in many different sexual ways. I believe whatever one does in the bedroom have a certain amount of intimacy between the two person!

Well said Lurker, IMHO almost all of the SP's and MP's I have been with, take what is written on PERB with a grain of salt. And, I am a firm believer of what goes on between two consenting adults is their business only. To make my point, I have seen ladies that have had terrible reviews, as I was with them prior to their review. I, really enjoyed my session with them, and they have expressed to me that they do read the reviews but scoff at them. I guess the old YMMV comes into play. What we must remember is that, these women are in the business to survive. Whether it is because they love sex, or just to live a decent life. They, like we, have all kinds of financial and or physical needs. In most cases, it is to have a decent life. The money we spend on these women goes toward food, shelter, education and anything else that is required in todays world. Why shouldn't they have a lifestyle that most of us enjoy also.
In closing, I would like to thank Tawney Brown, Soft Hands Anne and VanIsle Lisa for their kind comments and all those women I have seen as a client and especially the ones that I listed in my original post. (These are the girls that I found to have a ton of compassion and went out of their way to ensure I felt like a man). I, like Tawney will say a few mantras for you all. And to all you others whom have responded and pm'd me, I have hopefully thanked you all.
RareFind8 (now I will remain quoteless)

 

[TawnyBrown]

First of all, please don't feel you're intruding and no worries about being flamed from me Now...Maybe I'm tired but I don't understand your question, sorry

Hey BS Detector...my question was more general and rhetorical, I meant to say that I hope it would be allowed every now and then for SP's/whoever to give compliments & thanks to the perberts for the support (and $) they give to the girls, especially when someone like rarefind posts something so refreshingly representative of the type of clients the girls usually see (well, at our agency, at least !)

Lahra

 

[BS Detector]

Hey BS Detector...my question was more general and rhetorical, I meant to say that I hope it would be allowed every now and then for SP's/whoever to give compliments & thanks to the perberts for the support (and $) they give to the girls, especially when someone like rarefind posts something so refreshingly representative of the type of clients the girls usually see (well, at our agency, at least !)

Lahra

I totally agree with you hon. It should imclude that, reporting rip-offs (both ways btw). My only problem with some "reviews" is they get disrespectful and the ladies are not treated like ladies (and the excuse is always the same, "this is a review board"). People seem to think that because it is a review board, it gives the the 'right' to a lack of respect where what it really is, is simply a lack of courage while hiding behind a keyboard.

 

[rainydayman69]

my first and last long rant...

i'm a perbert newbie, just moved to Victoria from Van and lurked on perb for a long while only now have gotten the nerve to post. I really need this board to find info, weigh the pros and cons of seeing someone or going to an agency, and just "debriefing" about whatever. I do cringe, however, when I see certain perberts posting review after review in which it seems that the reviews are only about how they see themselves. The ladies become objects or mirrors for the guy, is it no wonder that so many fresh young beauties become used to being treated like a "f-ck factory worker"? Still, I'm paying good money, my time as well, and even a part of my soul when I see someone, is a little respect too much to ask? I'm finally going to book again (with CA), I received 2 pm's from them immediately after I posted on another forum and they were nothing but sweet and professional; ironically, I had seen someone at their agency last July (Nadia) and was thoroughly disgusted; bloated and sweaty, her breath smelled like garlic and pot, she delayed the session repeatedly (at one point came back from the bathroom with white stuff on her nose), and tried to get me to see her on the side "for a discount" (I guess she thinks I have money because I'm a business owner)...even asked me if I had pot! Well, I phoned Lahra the phone girl for CA tonight and got Syndee's schedule, and I was assured that Nadia is no longer there "for reasons which are well known to her". The icing on the cake to this rant is that I finally found out that Lahra is indeed the Tawny I used to see a few years ago (who I practically fell in love with), and while she is insistent that she no longer works as an SP, knowing she's at CA tells me alot about the agency. So thanks to perb and the perberts for this board, I wouldn't have found any peace of mind about getting back into the "swing of things" if it wasn't for the info here. And I'm sorry for my negative review of Nadia, the girl obviously has problems and I hope she does well, but I pity the agency that decided to take her on...will not be booking there, no siree! If things go well at CA, will probably stick there.

to the ladies that are so clean and gracious and enjoy their jobs, i'm sure it's still a hard one, i hope you are treated with the respect you deserve. you help us guys in so many ways, and i don't just mean sexually.

rainydayman69

 

[TawnyBrown]

i'm a perbert newbie, just moved to Victoria from Van and lurked on perb for a long while only now have gotten the nerve to post. I really need this board to find info, weigh the pros and cons of seeing someone or going to an agency, and just "debriefing" about whatever. I do cringe, however, when I see certain perberts posting review after review in which it seems that the reviews are only about how they see themselves. The ladies become objects or mirrors for the guy, is it no wonder that so many fresh young beauties become used to being treated like a "f-ck factory worker"? Still, I'm paying good money, my time as well, and even a part of my soul when I see someone, is a little respect too much to ask? I'm finally going to book again (with CA), I received 2 pm's from them immediately after I posted on another forum and they were nothing but sweet and professional; ironically, I had seen someone at their agency last July (Nadia) and was thoroughly disgusted; bloated and sweaty, her breath smelled like garlic and pot, she delayed the session repeatedly (at one point came back from the bathroom with white stuff on her nose), and tried to get me to see her on the side "for a discount" (I guess she thinks I have money because I'm a business owner)...even asked me if I had pot! Well, I phoned Lahra the phone girl for CA tonight and got Syndee's schedule, and I was assured that Nadia is no longer there "for reasons which are well known to her". The icing on the cake to this rant is that I finally found out that Lahra is indeed the Tawny I used to see a few years ago (who I practically fell in love with), and while she is insistent that she no longer works as an SP, knowing she's at CA tells me alot about the agency. So thanks to perb and the perberts for this board, I wouldn't have found any peace of mind about getting back into the "swing of things" if it wasn't for the info here. And I'm sorry for my negative review of Nadia, the girl obviously has problems and I hope she does well, but I pity the agency that decided to take her on...will not be booking there, no siree! If things go well at CA, will probably stick there.

to the ladies that are so clean and gracious and enjoy their jobs, i'm sure it's still a hard one, i hope you are treated with the respect you deserve. you help us guys in so many ways, and i don't just mean sexually.

rainydayman69

First of all, may I say thank you for your kind wishes to the ladies that work in this industry; yes, I do remember seeing you when I worked as a SP (how could I not?), you were one of many gentlemen who made me feel as if I were a princess, a worthy person who deserved to be treated with respect and kindness, I hope I did the same for you. You did not reveal your identity tonight when you phoned for Syndee's availability, and that only affirms my recollection of you as someone who is discreet, not wanting to create drama. But I have to say, as a representative of CA, I am sorry for your past experience with us. I was trying to be as diplomatic as possible regarding Nadia and our decision to no longer have her as an employee. I am posting this publicly so that other potential gentleman callers feel that they can tell us what they seek when looking for an agency that attends to their specific needs and preferences; what I'm trying to say is, "even bad feedback is GOOD feedback"! My rememberance of you is one of a kind man who never had a bad word to say about anyone, and it must have taken a great amount of courage to reveal your previous experience with us, as well as your hesitation to "get back into the swing of things" (I'm quoting you here, sweetie!).

When you do book with us, things will be different from the last time you were here; the SP industry should be "pro-gentleman" as well as "pro-worker", and I really hope you let us prove this point of view to you...!

With best heavenly wishes, big hugs and a fond remembrance,
Lahra (the former Tawny Brown)
Night-Time Phone Assistant,
Charlie's Angelz