How do you end a text conversation with a SP if you do not plan on seeing her?
- Thread starter VanessainVictoria
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That hasn't happened to me yet. The only reasons for not following through after a text conversation have been that our schedules haven't matched. In that case I just say I'll try again another time, and I do try again.
Now, I've only recently started making first contact by text, and then only if the SP requests text in her ad. If I'd been making contact by text for a few years, no doubt situations would have come up by now, in which I would have decided I didn't want to see her. In that case, would just say what I would say in a voice conversation, something like - "Thanks for the information. I don't think the service you offer is what I'm looking for."
Now, I've only recently started making first contact by text, and then only if the SP requests text in her ad. If I'd been making contact by text for a few years, no doubt situations would have come up by now, in which I would have decided I didn't want to see her. In that case, would just say what I would say in a voice conversation, something like - "Thanks for the information. I don't think the service you offer is what I'm looking for."
I would simply text her and say: another time perhaps
The situation would mostly be either she doesnt respond or if the timing doesnt fit after inquiry
The situation would mostly be either she doesnt respond or if the timing doesnt fit after inquiry
It varies for me. I don't just initiate contact the moment I want to see an SP. I start reaching her in advance to get an idea as to how she responds, especially when her ad is vague and I need info like, services, restrictions, rates, and incall location info (as well as notice needed for a session). I also make it very clear that I'm not booking that moment and just inquiring for a potential future date. Sometimes the SP doesn't respond, most times they do. However, when I get a reply it depends on the answer I get on how I respond. If an SP lists a bunch of restrictions that cause me to not want to see her, i thank her for her response and wish her a nice day. Sometimes anSP has her incall somewhere that I can't get to (since I transit quite a bit). I don't tell her that I'm no longer interested due to her restrictions, cause that's her right. I sometimes find the SP showing lack of interest in giving details that I'm asking for such as being too vague saying, "Baby I'm open minded as long as it's safeGFE" or "Incall info I'll let you know when you book", and I normally stop any further interaction and won't respond. I should haven't have to beg for what should be standard information.
I would never lead her on regarding a possibility of meeting down the road unless I intended to meet.
If there is some specific reason I did not want to meet I would mention it. Otherwise I'd tell her that we would not be a good match and thank her for her time.
If there is some specific reason I did not want to meet I would mention it. Otherwise I'd tell her that we would not be a good match and thank her for her time.
"Thanks for taking the time to answer my questions, I'll reach out when I'm ready to book!"
"Oh man, that might be a little late/far for me tonight."
"Thanks for the info, unfortunately [insert sex act here] is a bit of a deal breaker for me so I won't be able to see you this time around. I really like your pictures and have heard awesome things about you though so maybe next time?"
"Oh man, that might be a little late/far for me tonight."
"Thanks for the info, unfortunately [insert sex act here] is a bit of a deal breaker for me so I won't be able to see you this time around. I really like your pictures and have heard awesome things about you though so maybe next time?"
I text “thank you for your time”.
It’s noncommittal yet leaves the door open if I decide to follow through with a date.
It’s noncommittal yet leaves the door open if I decide to follow through with a date.
One thing for sure, my texts are not as brief as the options above.
I usually tell them the reason as honestly as I possibly can. Followed by an apology and promise to try to see them again.
Because I only see well-reviewed ladies, I have never canceled without any genuine reason.
I usually tell them the reason as honestly as I possibly can. Followed by an apology and promise to try to see them again.
Because I only see well-reviewed ladies, I have never canceled without any genuine reason.
Just my thoughts.. the “something came up” or “I just got called into work” are the go-to excuses that guys who book on very short notice use. I have a strong feeling these are the guys who contact a bunch of ladies at the same time. They book with one, then another responds so they cancel the booking they already made to see the other lady.
Or they jerked off immediately after booking and lost interest.
^^ just a generalization. I’m sure there’s other reasons behind those excuses. But I feel the ones I mentioned are the main ones.
Or they jerked off immediately after booking and lost interest.
^^ just a generalization. I’m sure there’s other reasons behind those excuses. But I feel the ones I mentioned are the main ones.
I think “sorry but I feel we aren’t a good match” is a great explanation. It’s honest and straightforward. I often use it myself.
If I specifically make a short notice booking and I do not hear back from the lady within an hour or two I just move on and book with someone else.
