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Hello everyone, my wife is a SP

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Sphubby

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Honestly I am not trying to promote anyone or demote anyone. I only thought might be interesting in getting a different point of view on the hobby and the people involved in it. Maybe answer some questions on threads when them come up that directly relate to me. That's the reason why I don't want to comment on any SP's. I guess I was wrong and will gracefully back away from the idea :(
 

Wannadance

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Honestly I am not trying to promote anyone or demote anyone. I only thought might be interesting in getting a different point of view on the hobby and the people involved in it. Maybe answer some questions on threads when them come up that directly relate to me. That's the reason why I don't want to comment on any SP's. I guess I was wrong and will gracefully back away from the idea :(
Some semblance of literacy in your posts would have helped. I hope you are not relying on written communication skills to earn a living. But then again as an SPs SO I guess not.
 

Sphubby

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Actually I do have to use my literacy skills at my day job, estimates, proposals, invoices that kind of boring stuff but usually do on my laptop rather than iPhone. We both have our own jobs and do our own thing. I was just kicking and leisurely writing comments and thought some might find interest in things I could contribute here.
 

MissingOne

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Well there are some SP's on this board that have come over for drinks at our house for social get togethers. I could PM them and get them to confirm my identity. There are also some established male members that I cojld get the wife to message to confirm also which might be a option.
Why would you even bother trying to prove anything to anyone on this board? You have no obligation to do so. If you have things you'd like to discuss, just put them out. People will believe you or not. Some who believe you may appreciate what you have to say. Most of those who don't believe you will just not bother reading. A few of those who don't believe you will, for reasons best known to themselves, feel a need to try to prove you're a liar. They're easy to ignore.
 

Sphubby

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Thanks MissingOne, you are completely right and I will take your advice. I will just carry on and throw in my two cents were appropriate or asked.
 

shyboy123

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It would be great to hear about opinions and preferences of an SP second hand without the general vitriol typically vented on the boards by girls directly.

For example, if you don't mind me asking: Of course with exception, I generally don't like eating pussy with an SP primarily because of the fluid exchange. I do like foreplay, and I feel it is a better session for everyone involved if we are both turned on. I have pretty good luck with kissing and nibbling erogenouse zones and focusing on breasts combined with caressing and slowly into digits. Some girls don't like strange fingers I am sure - but if well groomed, clean and gentle is it welcomed or merely tolerated?
 
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1nitestan

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Some semblance of literacy in your posts would have helped. I hope you are not relying on written communication skills to earn a living. But then again as an SPs SO I guess not.
Wow, that's just gonna get you great mileage around here. Just come right out and say you have zero respect for the women (and their SO's) here.
 

hornygandalf

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Sphubby... ignore the skeptics. Others will maintain an open mind, and the value and content of your postings over time should vindicate you or otherwise.
It is unusual, so some are ready to call BS. I think it is always better to maintain an open mind until proven otherwise.
 

Wannadance

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Wow, that's just gonna get you great mileage around here. Just come right out and say you have zero respect for the women (and their SO's) here.
When did I say I have zero respect for the women? I have zero respect for illiterate people who leech off of them though.
 

Sphubby

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In my opinion I would have to say.
I would never be married to an sp until she was out of the bizz.
Sounds to me like you are bragging!!
Everyone has a right to their own option gentleman and I understand probably a vast majority of men would not be comfortable with their wife being an active SP.

I didn't mean to brag and if I came off that way I apologize. I am proud of the wife and the way she handles herself and is able to provide that special feeling we all crave.

Shyboy, I will respond to you when I have a computer in front of me, I have some insight to your questions but will take longer than I want to do on a stupid phone :( lol
 

Jackster

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Well all I can say is if it were me, I'd be bragging every chance I could. Imagine a woman who knows every move in the book to get you to heaven.
I've been married a long time to a woman who is as exciting in bed as reading the Wall Street Journal. Kudos to you Sphubby!
Jackster
 

Sphubby

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Well Jackster it took me three tries to get it right. My first two tries read the same book as your wife lol. They seemed to think love didn't depend on sex and wasn't important. My wife now is the opposite. Works for me ;) As she says, "way to mans heart is empty balls and full stomach" lol
 

*emmanuelle

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Well all I can say is if it were me, I'd be bragging every chance I could. Imagine a woman who knows every move in the book to get you to heaven.
My thoughts exactly! Who wouldn't want a woman who is beautiful, independently rich, awesome in bed, and not constantly tired/stressed out/unhappy from a 9-5 job??? Seriously!
 

clu

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Nice to see not everyone is quick to be vicious. And I actually thought Sphubby was fairly articulate (particularly compared to some other run-on posts elsewhere on PERB). FWIW if his story is indeed true (and I'm keeping an open mind) he wouldn't be the only guy who posts here with a SO who is/was in the sex industry. Some people are sex positive enough to be in such a relationship, as Hatrick points out. Some people just lack the jealousy gene. Shocking isn't it? Also he wouldn't be the only one who exclusively uses a phone to read/post here. (Side note to Sphubby, they're getting hung up on your use of the word "shrill" when you probably mean "shill".)
 

Sphubby

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What a lot of guys don't seem to realize is that most SP's do have boyfriends and husbands that they keep secret. I have been at this for many years and have had some pretty steady relationships with some of the workin gals where I have gotten to know their man. I've taken them shopping when they had their car break down, others wound up partying at the bar with them, one fellow served me beers as we watched a hockey playoff game together after I finished fucking his wife and she made pizza for us. Plenty of times the fellow goes for a walk while the deal is on and comes back later when I'm leaving or have left, this is by no means an unusual circumstance more like par for the course from my experience.
At least now there is someone who is willing to answere questions, who knows if it's real or bullshit it's the Internet let's hope it's entertaining!
Interesting you would say that Hatrick, that exact scenario has happened to me. I have sat and had dinner, beers and watched a game/movie on TV with some select good clients of my wife. Its not a regular thing but not unheard of. Obviously they must have a open mind as much as we do. We don't have any secrets including our relationship, If a client asks, she tells the truth, its just not offered in a conversation without the request.
My wife has also had platonic type relationships with clients off hours that included biking, running and other activities away from the hobby, the problem can be keeping them separate and not having any ill feelings. I have personally seen that take a turn for the worse but not always.
I will try to keep it light and entertaining, I/we are not about drama and ruffling feathers and into vicious attacks on peoples characters or communication skills. More just having a friendly conversation and offering information, opinions, point of views on different subject that arise that directly relate to me/us.

Cheers .SPH
 

Sphubby

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Nice to see not everyone is quick to be vicious. And I actually thought Sphubby was fairly articulate (particularly compared to some other run-on posts elsewhere on PERB). FWIW if his story is indeed true (and I'm keeping an open mind) he wouldn't be the only guy who posts here with a SO who is/was in the sex industry. Some people are sex positive enough to be in such a relationship, as Hatrick points out. Some people just lack the jealousy gene. Shocking isn't it? Also he wouldn't be the only one who exclusively uses a phone to read/post here. (Side note to Sphubby, they're getting hung up on your use of the word "shrill" when you probably mean "shill".)
Thanks for the vote of confidence clu, I have typed shill 10 times in the phone and haven't let it auto-correct it to shrill so I think I am past that now. Until you mentioned it I didn't even notice it was doing that :confused:
I wouldn't say I lack the jealousy gene, but lets just say age and experience leads to a different outlook on life and relationships. Sex and love/relationship can be separated but also needed together if you understand what I mean. My wife has sex with other men all the time and often enjoys it but only we make love together when having sex so it is easy for me to make the distinction between the two activities. I guess you could call us "sex positive" lol but more that we are completely secure in our relationship with each other.

BTW Emmanuelle, if we ever make it out your way I/we would LOVE to come and see you :eyebrows:

SPH
 

Sphubby

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I didn't read all the threads, I'm just off to the gym, but I'm pretty certain who are you and yes indeed very cute and beautiful wife.

I love you guys !!!!!!!
Szabina
Hi Szabina, I would never mention any names here without approval of the other party but your name did pop up in my mind of someone that has been over for some drinks :D

Been to long, we have to do it again sometime soon. Hope to see you soon.

SPH
 

badbadboy

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SpHubby

I hope all goes well for you here on Perb and think you can offer an interesting perspective on her work, your relationship and all those interesting dinner time discussions. ;)

I've seen a few SP's over the years who acknowledged they have an SO. Some were like you that had a SO who was able to live and understand her work while not being intrusive. Others showed some character traits that did not have a positive effect upon her and her work.

I'm looking forward to hearing your insights.
 
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