Discrimination against East Indian Men?
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My 2 cents. Like we need anymore pennies on this thread!
In my experience, in every race there are good and bad. Predominantly, the bad becomes common knowledge called "Stereotype" Perfect example: I have seen on this thread comments on how IE men stink or are greasy.
And for some yes this is true. Here's another.
Canadians are the a very friendly, tolerant people.
Again, some are some aren't. and for that fact they are respected across the world for it. Point being, stereotype is not without some truth within.
If an SP decides not to take on a EI client based on a stereotype, it may not be best thought out decision, but it is still based upon some truth.
When dealing with people of another culture, you have to remember how different it is there from here. Some cultures, the first born son is raised, treated like God, and will grow up thinking that he is. Another person may have to literally fight for everything that they ever owned out of necessity. What kind of person will they grow up to be?
Nasty? Arrogant? Aggressive? Pushy? Rude? Did they choose to develop these negative traits? or were they a product of upbringing, or necessity of survival?
I'm not discounting the fact that you may have a certifiable dumb ass on your hands, but just think why they are what they are. A famous book once said Because you do not continue running with them in this course to the same low sink of debauchery, they are puzzled and go on speaking abusively of you.
In my experience, in every race there are good and bad. Predominantly, the bad becomes common knowledge called "Stereotype" Perfect example: I have seen on this thread comments on how IE men stink or are greasy.
And for some yes this is true. Here's another.
Canadians are the a very friendly, tolerant people.
Again, some are some aren't. and for that fact they are respected across the world for it. Point being, stereotype is not without some truth within.
If an SP decides not to take on a EI client based on a stereotype, it may not be best thought out decision, but it is still based upon some truth.
When dealing with people of another culture, you have to remember how different it is there from here. Some cultures, the first born son is raised, treated like God, and will grow up thinking that he is. Another person may have to literally fight for everything that they ever owned out of necessity. What kind of person will they grow up to be?
Nasty? Arrogant? Aggressive? Pushy? Rude? Did they choose to develop these negative traits? or were they a product of upbringing, or necessity of survival?
I'm not discounting the fact that you may have a certifiable dumb ass on your hands, but just think why they are what they are. A famous book once said Because you do not continue running with them in this course to the same low sink of debauchery, they are puzzled and go on speaking abusively of you.
U.s.a. ???????????
According to our polite, intelligent and charming friend orp, he's from the USA and visits Vancouver about once a year.
What he's doing posting all these original posts in a foreign country and city is beyond me.
He had a couple of other topics recently - SWEDISH TOUCH and BEST LOOKING SPs.
And both of those posts are filled with his many threads that exhibit the same "charm" as all his threads do on this one.
According to our polite, intelligent and charming friend orp, he's from the USA and visits Vancouver about once a year.
What he's doing posting all these original posts in a foreign country and city is beyond me.
He had a couple of other topics recently - SWEDISH TOUCH and BEST LOOKING SPs.
And both of those posts are filled with his many threads that exhibit the same "charm" as all his threads do on this one.
Right. They are a product of their environment. We have to weed through all of that in a phone call. And some people call us stupid.
Who is bothering who ???????
orp, "have anything better to do" - now that's calling the kettle black.
In the last 3 days you have posted 42 replies or threads, mostly rude and insulting. Not the sign of somebody that has better things to do.
Give us a break and do all your insults and rudeness on a review board that addresses pooners and SPs in your US city, where ever that may be, or have you worn out your welcome there as well??????
orp, I don't think it's the topic that bothers some of us, I think it's YOU THAT BOTHERS MOST OF US. !!!!!!!!!!
orp, "have anything better to do" - now that's calling the kettle black.
In the last 3 days you have posted 42 replies or threads, mostly rude and insulting. Not the sign of somebody that has better things to do.
Give us a break and do all your insults and rudeness on a review board that addresses pooners and SPs in your US city, where ever that may be, or have you worn out your welcome there as well??????
I completely disagree with Indian_boner's post on pg. 8. IE men make up 80% of my bulk income. Young and old, Canadian and immigrants!!
Ps. sorry new to this site. I don't know quite how to use the quotes yet!!
Ps. sorry new to this site. I don't know quite how to use the quotes yet!!
E.I. Guys
I am a East Indian guy. There is alot of prejudice ,, when someone would see me with my blonde European wife, would take a double look. even my own family didn't like her because she is not Indian. . Not all E. Indians are bad, just we get sucked into the family drama
I am a East Indian guy. There is alot of prejudice ,, when someone would see me with my blonde European wife, would take a double look. even my own family didn't like her because she is not Indian. . Not all E. Indians are bad, just we get sucked into the family drama
I'd like to remind you that you and your girls are not judges, nurses, or doctors. You're a bunch of hookers.
And yet even as a hooker... I know the difference between the possessive "your" and the contraction for you are - "you're." Sad world isn't it?
I don't generally condone spelling and grammar police on a review board, but I think if you are broadly insulting the intellect of a group of people you better damn well spell the insult right. Some of us are professionals outside of the sex industry as well.
Now that I am done ranting - I've seen four E. Indians, and oddly enough none in Vancouver. I had to kick three of them out. One wanted me to smoke crack with him after showing me internet articles about how he killed his ex wife's lover. The next handed me a donation that was half the price we had agreed on and then tried to haggle with me. The third was fine our first appointment, but then took to showing up at my house and waltzing in when ever he felt like it. I am an independent SP - not an f-ing massage parlor! (The forth one was a perfect gentleman by the by)
I have been really lucky as an SP and oddly enough these three E. Indians sum all but one of the problem clients I have EVER had. Despite this I would STILL book with an E. Indian. Although this might be, in part, because I have dated a couple as well.
Ha ha good one.Who cares if the guy is on EI.
Cheers.
Well I have heard (legally speaking: hearsay) about EI men from one of Calgary's finest SPs who moved from Vancouver a few years ago. She is SE Asian herself if that makes a difference.
Anyway, according to this dear girl, she used to work in a studio in Vancouver before going indy in Calgary. And it was her personal experience, as it was that of other girls in the studio, that several times EI men tried to pull off the condom when going for doggie when out of sight of the lady on her hands and knees. EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeewwwwwwwwwww!!!!! Could even be attempted murder if you think about it
So all these girls refused EI men as a policy. Personally for me, once would be coincidence, twice and I too would blacklist all those guys (well, if I was fucking them!)
I thought the answer to why I'm here would be obvious to even the most dense poster: I'm in the midst of planning my trip to BC, wasn't sure whether ST was still open or not, and wanted to find out. I'd like to try out a few other options and think this is a good place to investigate. I've enjoyed my stay so far on this board and will probably spend more time here.
I'd like to thank all those who have sent me nice and supportive PMs. Don't worry, orph isn't going anywhere.
btw, Some quality and thought provoking posts by the last few posters (jadewarrior and sweetcee especially). Keep it up.
When I started out - some of the advice I got from other SP's was to stay away from EI men because they are "dirty, they haggle, they don't respect women etc...” - callous, ludicrous stereo-types that couldn't be farther from the truth. Luckily I didn't listen to them - some of my favourite clients are middle eastern and EI.
If an SP decides to not see someone based on race alone then it is her loss. Of course there are religious differences that we independent western women may find distasteful but after a quick conversation you can usually eliminate those fools. Misogynists and bigots are not unique to one race, creed or culture!
IMO East Indian, Persian and Turkish men are some of the sexiest men in the world. I'd take exotic Naveen Andrews over bland Brad Pitt any day!
If an SP decides to not see someone based on race alone then it is her loss. Of course there are religious differences that we independent western women may find distasteful but after a quick conversation you can usually eliminate those fools. Misogynists and bigots are not unique to one race, creed or culture!
IMO East Indian, Persian and Turkish men are some of the sexiest men in the world. I'd take exotic Naveen Andrews over bland Brad Pitt any day!
Ha ha good one.
Well I have heard (legally speaking: hearsay) about EI men from one of Calgary's finest SPs who moved from Vancouver a few years ago. She is SE Asian herself if that makes a difference.
Anyway, according to this dear girl, she used to work in a studio in Vancouver before going indy in Calgary. And it was her personal experience, as it was that of other girls in the studio, that several times EI men tried to pull off the condom when going for doggie when out of sight of the lady on her hands and knees. EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeewwwwwwwwwww!!!!! Could even be attempted murder if you think about it
So all these girls refused EI men as a policy. Personally for me, once would be coincidence, twice and I too would blacklist all those guys (well, if I was fucking them!)
The above gives a pretty fair assessment of the topic IMO & my SP will agree with the theme above;
most EI men have been dificult to deal with & try to take advantage of her by asking for services she's not willing to do & not paying the agreed rate, but a couple have been very polite.
I think it depends on the individual & how they were raised.
I don't know why.
Why would an sp say she discriminates based on race?
Who would be dumb enough to do that?????
I know SP's who will not see EI men, but I can 100% guarentee that their not going to post for your curiousity sake that they don't.
The fact is descrimination exists, get over it. It exists everywhere and "everyone" does it to a certain degree. As a realtor I work in certain neighbourhoods where caucasians will absolutely under no circumstances move there.
I know very very few caucasians however liberal and unracist they purport to be who will live in a neighbourhood where the majority of people wear turbins/robes.
So does this mean the majority of caucasians are racists?
Maybe, if you were to use this as your sole criteria.
The fact is you can't force another person to live or have sex with anyone they don't want to.
And thank god.
That's the last place I want the government interfering.
