The message that Darla is trying to get out is clear. Frankly IMHO most sp's in one way or another are average to good in this dept BUT FEW ARE EXCEPTIONAL AND THERE IS A BIGGGG DIFFERENCE! I have only found 2 who really understand the art of what it takes to be incredible (ymmv) (with or without the cover). For my part a really good bj is influenced strongly by hand, lip tongue and mouth action that are successivly well co-ordinated repeatedly with a lot of saliva providing the lube. Not too fast just steady and rhythically with the occaisional break for her to relax and for me to settle down. While it is always a treat to witness deep throat it is not how deep can she swallow but how much pleasure she delivers to the magic spot just like it is when the guy does the lady. It is always a pleasure to have some oral attention to my balls but franlky, for me, that is mentally stimulating more than physically.
In daty while licking from the 'cuzif' to the front of the slit and everywhere in between may feel good for the lady there is one focused spot that always rewards no matter what is done with the rest. It is no different for the guy!
Of additional note I recall Avery once saying that even the best sp giving a covered bj can only rate a 4 compared to the best bbbj! I WOULD AGREE. Any sp that delivers bbbj, if the rest of her ducks are lined up in a row, will make a regular repeat out of more customers than she will scare away. They will even probably pay more!
IMHO there is not a lot of difference in the risk of disease spreading when a guy gives daty and when a lady gives a bbbj. For those that would argue the 'fluid transfer theory' I would counter that any skilled sp can usually tell if the guy is coming if she is truly only trying to avoid the cim. Even if she can't there is always the option of (when an accident occurs) a quick trip to the wash room and a mouth wash gargle if she didn't deflect the load before the guy goes over the top. In daty, IMHO, the guy gets and gives a lot of fluid transfer and the risk of TWO WAY disease transfer is not enormously different than the reverse for the lady. In short IMHO if disease is really the main concern daty and bbbj would both not be allowed! Perhaps only a few of the sp's really enjoy giving bj and the rest would rather not or take it or leave it and the disease thing is more smoke and mirrors than reality.
I have also heard from sp that guys tend to drip with certain fluids in the run up during the oral. Ladies I haven't found one of you that doesn't have some juices flowing from the excitement yourselves!
To be frank a few of the ladies seem to really enjoy giving bj. Almost all allow and seem to enjoy getting daty. Kind of out of balance IMHO!
I am sure all of the experts have an opinion on this one. This is simply IMHO!
p.s. definition 'cuzif'. Cuzif that little piece of skin between the ass hole and the vagina wasn't ther the hole would be this big ....
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