logsplitter said:
I find it almost hilarious how many poons on here believe that most of the ladies are safety first all of the time with everyone but I am dammed if I am going to fill in the blanks for anyone It is a myth!!!!!!!!!!!!! I've been there many times and declined the offers and do not repeat if safety is not up to my standard. Having said that I am also convinced that there are also many ladies that are safety first and they never bend the rules professionally (the rules vary from lady to lady on the bj part)!
Many ladies also have a personal life that sometimes involves a guy and those guys aren't required to live up to the same safety standard.
Unfortunately, this thread on a new lady has been hijacked into one on BBFS, which she doesn't offer anyway.
In any case, we have no control over what the ladies do in their private lives. Some of them have SOs, and if they do BBFS with them, it's no different than the clients doing BBFS with their SOs. If a lady does BBFS at home and exclusively CFS with clients, I don't see a problem, unless her SO is doing BBFS with others.
On the other hand, if a lady does only CFS with clients, and does BBFS with multiple partners in her private life, that likely is a problem, but how are we (the clients) to know about it? Lots of SPs accuse other SPs of unsafe practices, drug use, etc. but I believe most of that is just half-truths and out-and-out bullshit fuelled by petty jealousy and vindictiveness.
Another PERB member PM'd me a list of 9 local ladies he claims have offered BBFS. He wasn't clear whether he meant they offered it to him, or that he had been told by others. I've been with 7 of the ladies on that list, but none of them has ever offered me BBFS. I have no way of verifying this info, so don't ask, but four of the names on the list absolutely astounded me.
I haven't been offered BBFS by a Winnipeg lady for about four years. That was the (in)famous Storm, who apparently left Manitoba shortly after being busted at Jesse's. (I turned her down when she offered BBFS).
It ultimately comes down to staying within our own comfort level and risk tolerance.