Buying gifts for an ex.

[KYG]

I've seen where guys will buy an ex a gifts because they want to get back and it doesn't work or generate any interest as she's made up her mind and wants nothing to do with that person.

But I've sometimes seen where she will give him a second chance or basically he's bought some short lived time to see what happens.

Anyone have any personal experience with this type of gift giving?

 

[Mr Blonde]

exes are exes for a reason give your head a shake.

 

[SexyBoy]

I don't think gifts are the way back in.

I have seen people beg and that sometimes works...

I have also seen people distant themselves only to find their way back to each other.


Gifts... not a good idea.

 

[chilli]

I've seen where guys will buy an ex a gifts because they want to get back and it doesn't work or generate any interest as she's made up her mind and wants nothing to do with that person.

But I've sometimes seen where she will give him a second chance or basically he's bought some short lived time to see what happens.

Anyone have any personal experience with this type of gift giving?

No

But I will tell you something, you can't "buy" a woman.

You can rent her for a short time, and if you do "buy" her with a gift - she's using you - and she knows it.

Your short time.

Why you even think to buy someone?

You do know these are the same women who will marry you and take half of everything you have right?

I just don't get men who buy women expensive gifts period. What a stupid silly thing to do.

 

[Aerts]

I have seen people beg and that sometimes works...

How is this better than getting back in with gifts?

 

[GoodKat]

Cut one of your fingers off and give it to her. That's what Yakuza members do when they screw up. It's also less expensive then diamonds.

 

[Krustee]

But I've sometimes seen where she will give him a second chance or basically he's bought some short lived time to see what happens.

Anyone have any personal experience with this type of gift giving?

I'll give you a little advice I received from my father, although I was too stupid, cock sure of myself & basically full of piss & vinegar, I did not heed all of it.

There are basically two types of women;

• Givers
  &
• Takers

Just like people in general.

Things to look for when dating a woman;

• Does she respect you?
  If she does it will show in how she acts. ie. when you open the door of your car, let her in, does she reach over & unlock your door for you?
  Does she order from the rightside of the menu (price) at a restaurant or allow you to order for both of you?
  Does she buy you gifts or bake/cook for you?
  
• Does she have a kind spirit?
  how does she react when seeing a sad story or see's a child that is hurt or in need as on TV Christian Childrens Fund commecials etc.
  
• Is she polite?
  Does she wait for you before beginning to eat?
  Does she allow you to be late without complaining?
  Does she open the door or give her seat to elders?
  Does she talk out of turn?
  
• Is she self centered or generous?
  Does she give to charity?
  Does she help those in need when she see's them?
  How does she act with children?
  
• Is she confident or arrogant?
  Is she able to say something that she knows is correct in a conversation?
  Does she force her opinion and get loud in a conversation?
  
• How does she see herself?
  Does she take compliments with grace & humble character?
  or
  Does she remark that she thinks so & so is a fat bitch?
  How does she react when someone says something negative about her?
  
• Does she respect her parents?
  9 times out of ten if a girl does not respect her parents there is something wrong with her.
  There are many bad parents but if a girl cannot see any good in her parents, you should ask yourself why?

Nothing is worse than spending your life with a self centered conceited woman (or man for the girls), they will suck he life out of you & cause you to be bitter.

Better to find a woman that has a heart & a mind above a pretty face or body she uses to get what she wants from men.

Be extremely careful of a conniving woman she will break your heart.

Hope the above helps - Good luck!

 

[Mr Blonde]

after reflecting on your query for the day....

...have you considered attempting suicide and THEN slowly progressing into buying gifts for her?