please help
i'm planning my first visit with an sp soon
tongue her clit with just the right amount of pressure... maybe suck gently... or if she's really sensitive do it very very lightly ( i.e. "like you're licking honey off the wings of a butterfly" )
The fun part is to be totally aware and sensitive to her reactions.. if she's not doing anything vary the sensation. If she starts twitching.. or her asshole starts puckering a bit... keep doing it.
You can gently put your finger or two fingers in and stroke her G spot.. you should feel some ridges.. on the top part of her pussy about an inch or so inside.
Chances are she'll blow. Every woman is different but it's variations on a theme. Be patient, take your time and if she's digging it keep doing it.
Works for me most of the time
Otherwise use a dildo.