After several pooning with ladies in the town and the states, Now it is the thing I am now suffering. Yea, I had a crush on a lady I have seen in recently. It is not the physics or the sex got me there. It is the way she talks, thinks and believes drives me irrational. Sounds crazy and stupid but I am kind of panic and hesitate now. I think I am quiting pooning before I figure out this. Should I just let it goes or, following the gut here? Or anyone can give some tips on how to get the lady's attention? I need some advices from gentlements and ladies in this board. Sorry if such question bothers some ppl in any aspects.
Being rational or just follow the feeling?
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But don't be shocked if she does not have the same feelings for you as you have for her.
In reality you are a client that she provided a service for, and apparently did her job quite well. Just don't be shocked if she does not feel the same.
In reality you are a client that she provided a service for, and apparently did her job quite well. Just don't be shocked if she does not feel the same.
Richard- Thanks for pushing my gut there
Namassa- Yes, I am fully aware to understand a relationship should be reversal that It only happens when she feel the same way. I just don't want to be pushy there. Thanks
Dood- You wrote alot, and there are all insightful I believe. Yes, the problem you have addressed is the main stream of my hesitation and the reason I am asking help here. To her, I may just be a client, not even a guy or man. I should deal this seriously by meself. Thanks for clearly brought it out.
Namassa- Yes, I am fully aware to understand a relationship should be reversal that It only happens when she feel the same way. I just don't want to be pushy there. Thanks
Dood- You wrote alot, and there are all insightful I believe. Yes, the problem you have addressed is the main stream of my hesitation and the reason I am asking help here. To her, I may just be a client, not even a guy or man. I should deal this seriously by meself. Thanks for clearly brought it out.
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The biggest fear lie in anticipation. Just ask her out. What is the harm? If she says no then great, you can move on instead of thinking about her. I asked out an SP before too, she said yes and we have been dating. I didn't even think about it. But I knew I wanted to see her, more of her.
One thing you need to keep in mind is that this type of relationship more than likely won't work out in the end. You need to be prepared to end the relationship anytime. That is the only way I keep myself sane.
I know it is a horrible feeling, because you might have stronger feelings for her than she does you. You need to figure out what you want out of the relationship. Truth is, SPs are the same as any woman. Women appreciate what you make them feel, not just what you own.
Just be careful, because it could potentially hurt, a lot.
One thing you need to keep in mind is that this type of relationship more than likely won't work out in the end. You need to be prepared to end the relationship anytime. That is the only way I keep myself sane.
I know it is a horrible feeling, because you might have stronger feelings for her than she does you. You need to figure out what you want out of the relationship. Truth is, SPs are the same as any woman. Women appreciate what you make them feel, not just what you own.
Just be careful, because it could potentially hurt, a lot.
bsd454;
Maybe you should pull your car over to the side of the road before posting.
You're gonna cause an accident if you keep this up.
Besides that, I can't understand a word you're saying!
it's impossible to change. I fall in love every time I am with someone intimately. I'm the fool...but I like being the fool....it's life.
kindest,
eddie.
always follow your feelings and let the chips fall were they fall.
but be prepared for it not to work out, its life, part of living is falling down,
the first instinct in this hobby is to say forget it
it will never work.
i remember my first session with one particular lady, we hit it off, it was crazy how we hit it off.
but at the end of the day i was married,
i had to tell her i was married.
we just kind of stopped and looked at each other in silence for awhile when i told her.
it would have been nice to find out.
but be prepared for it not to work out, its life, part of living is falling down,
the first instinct in this hobby is to say forget it
it will never work.
i remember my first session with one particular lady, we hit it off, it was crazy how we hit it off.
but at the end of the day i was married,
i had to tell her i was married.
we just kind of stopped and looked at each other in silence for awhile when i told her.
it would have been nice to find out.
Again, thanks for more advices, gee, in this board, ppl are really helpful with confident.
Yea, seems like I really have to follow the feeling with the gut. I think I will regret if i don't.
But again, understanding her and my real circumstances is very important and serious point in here. I am aware the fact that no one would change their life just because of the feeling.
Thank you all, especially all the ladies replying this thread, (always better to know what women need and want and think).
Yea, seems like I really have to follow the feeling with the gut. I think I will regret if i don't.
But again, understanding her and my real circumstances is very important and serious point in here. I am aware the fact that no one would change their life just because of the feeling.
Thank you all, especially all the ladies replying this thread, (always better to know what women need and want and think).
