I'm trying to find a way fair for those of us who really look younger than we are, and who may lose customers who will see the number "39" and make assumptions about what that looks like when in fact we may very well look like 34 (or even younger!).
It's an interesting question - in an area so dependent on looks, is a woman who looks 30 but who's really 40 misleading someone? Say a twenty-five year old has fantasies about older women, sees your age listed as 40, books, and then is disappointed because you don't look 40?
I don't know the answer - just posing the question.
Certainly though, you very definitely need to look the age you state.