Whenever I`d travel, the urge would hit me. There is no place in the world more lonely then an anonymous hotel room in a strange city. For years, I`d "look into it" by checking out the ads in the local yellow pages. I never followed through though because I had an idea that SPs were all sexually abused drug addicts. I didn`t want to be part of the problem so I never hired one.
But I kept window shopping. Eventually I found my way here. Lurking for several weeks I found that my preconceived notions of SPs were largely incorrect. The women here at least seemed to have gotten into the business for perfectly rational reasons and didn`t seem to be the victims I imagined. At that point my only real objection had vanished. Now my seeing an SP was purely a matter of courage.
Scouring the reviews I decided that my first time with a SP would be with Kara-Lynn. I was nervous as hell seeing her (and ended up having a swig of dutch courage before going up to see her).
She put me completely at ease and I ended up seeing her twice that week it was so much fun. I learned a few things from those sessions:
1) One hour is not quite enough time. Go for two if you can afford it.
2) There`s nothing wrong with two consenting adults trading cash for sex.
3) The second time is a lot easier then the first. Less nervousness and more joyful anticipation.
A few months later I found myself in Victoria and I saw Mia. Despite a painful injury (sustained
prior to our session) it was some of the best sex I`ve ever had. The full review is
here in case you`re interested. Again, there was less nervousness as I became more familiar with the procedures.
Two SPs, three sessions and zero bad experiences. I`m going on another trip soon and I`ve been saving my pennies for another session or two. Am I nervous? A little, but not enough to let it get in the way of lots of fun and pleasure.
Here`s what you should do. Read some reviews and look at some pictures. Decide on someone to be your first SP. Make an appointment for a day when you`ve got nothing else to compete for your time. If you`re nervouse on the phone, write down what you want to say and ask. Let them know that it`s your first time and are looking for a little guidance. Other then that, don`t worry too much about saying anything embarrassing - these ladies have heard it all. As long as you`re polite you should do fine.
Once the appointment has been made, make sure you keep it. Their time is important and chickening out is rude. If you absolutely feel you cannot go through with it, at least tell them eye to eye and give them something for the wasted time. Of course, if you`ve choosen a well-reviewed and attractive lady, why wouldn`t you go through with it?
Don`t forget hygiene. Shower, with soap. Shave (and shaving your privates will get them extra attention), brush and floss your teeth. If you`re feeling grungy, ask to use their shower.
They`ll guide you through your first time and you`ll be happy you finally took the plunge.
I recommend both of the ladies I`ve seen before. Kara-Lynn has a reputation for being hard to get a hold of, but I find that phoning her on days she`s posted to CL works well. Mia of course is on this board and you can PM or email her.
