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It's human nature for people to do what is most beneficial for them. I believe that includes relationships too. When deciding to ask someone out or get involved in s relationship it's because the person believes that this gives them s better life situation. /philosophical rant lol

I'm aware. I'm also aware that this could end up with me getting hurt or rejected. I mean, the chances are slim that she will say yes, even if all I'm asking for is a simple date. Something casual with no expectations of anything at all. But nonetheless, logic does state that if someone likes...

Everybody lies. The only variable is about what. I see your point, but I also don't think too far ahead in terms of marriage. I mean, I've had two serious relationships that each lasted three and two years respectfully. In neither one of them did we really think about marriage. If it...

Thanks man. Glad to hear some advice from someone who's dating an SP. I think I agree that I should probably see her a couple more times...moreso than just the one more time I was thinking about. Aside from the sex being great, it would be a great opportunity to continue getting to know...

Thanks for all your contributions too...I really appreciate everyone's contributions. Yes, I would definitely be upfront with her and talk everything through with her. It's only fair to her...I wouldn't want to inconvenience her or anything like that, and even if she felt the slightest bit...

Thanks :) I think what I'll probably end up doing is going to see her again, and if it feels right and if there feels like a potential connection then I'll ask her at the end of the session if she wants to go out for dinner sometime on her day off.

So if it feels right, just ask and have no regrets?

Being extremely honest, I don't know how comfortable I would be. I mean, I've given it some thought, and I think that if both she and I could separate what she does from having real feelings and attachments then definitely. I would definitely be looking for more than just sex all day and all...

Well what if we think of this: what if I were willing to risk everything just to ask her out, for the chance of having something more special? Is the potential for success worth the risk? IE. I've always told myself that doing this would be a short-term kinda thing. Initially I was thinking...

You're probably right. And perhaps I'm messed up for thinking that it could be more than what it is? I mean, maybe she doesn't feel that way. Maybe she enjoyed the time we had last night, but just doesn't think that it could go to another level or that I'd even be interested in taking it to...

Thank you :) And thank you to everyone who has replied here. I really appreciate you all taking time out of your day to reply here, especially given that right now the discussion is really about my situation. I'm thinking I'll probably book a couple more sessions with her and see how it goes...

Seems like the general consensus is that I shouldn't ask. To be honest, I'm not even sure what my shelf life in pooning really is. I mean, I really only did it yesterday because it looked like fun, and I had found this girl who I thought was beautiful in the pictures I had seen and actually...

Damn :( Although it's tough to tell from the first time. Perhaps I'll have to go back, lol.

Well that makes perfect sense, except she works for an agency so I think she kinda has to charge, does she not?

Hmmm...thanks. So I guess it varies depending on the lady. Does that mean it might be worthwhile to at least ask? I have nothing but good intentions, but at the same time I wouldn't want to make her feel uncomfortable at all either by just asking.

Okay, now, I know what the common answer is going to be "you paid her to be nice to you, she doesn't like you she likes your money" or whatever. But I'd like to start off by saying that last night was my very first night ever with an SP, so perhaps I'm just going through the first time emotions...

? Where did I say I was in love? I realize she was paid to be nice to me...so I guess this means it's not a worthwhile attempt to ask?

Hmm...don't mean to bump an old thread, but definitely a question I have so why not put it where it belongs? So last night I had my first experience with an SP, and had a great time with her. We're both of a similar age, and at least from my perspective we seemed to have some chemistry. I...

Lol. Reminds me of my first time. I was 16 and she was 17. It was summer time so neither of us had school. We were both at her place and just cuddling in her bed. After making out for at least half an hour she suggested I go find a condom, so I obliged and made sure that was realy what she...