A micro sp once belittled my style of sex-- the pacing, performance, etc. She proceeded to tell me what i was doing was "not fucking" and then demonstrated what it was i was supposed to be doing. Her gyrations were amusing, and i was taken aback by her attitude. I laughed it off bc I was paying to fuck my style not hers.
Like others, I've got the belly pat a couple times, invariably from Chinese sps, they are shockingly direct about weight lol.
I only hope i never acted in an insulting way, even unintentionally (but unf I'm sure it's happened). I had a beloved sp melt down on me twice or thrice, and she did her best to insult me, but it was so half hearted and transparent my heart was filled with compassion and care.
Be kind out there 🤗