For me nothing kills a boner quicker than a shitty personality. Looks gets you the initial attraction. Personality seals the deal.
*note to self: 5 Mississippi's is too much* š(snip)
(one of the reasons I donāt crucify men for having eyes - so long as they have the awareness not to stare greater than three Mississippiās like a baby will).
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You ask stupid questions, you get answers you don't like....@80watts
A) Please stop speaking for women on how chemistry is fostered for them. We have multiple generations responding in these threads, as well as differing levels of self-awareness and societal influence in upbringing (hence me āwondering how the gents will voteā). Blake has touched on some nuance here, and did not regard herself as a saint at all. Itās obvious, however, that you view finding someone others view as conventionally unattractive as a saint-like quality. Her standards are just simply less based on physical appearance (as are mine). I find a man telling me what I will enjoy (an ego-based personality trait) absolutely insufferable - regardless of his physical appearance.
B) You are correct on society being hard-wired for attraction (particularly symmetry). Babies even have this and will stare at people they find beautiful (one of the reasons I donāt crucify men for having eyes - so long as they have the awareness not to stare greater than three Mississippiās like a baby will).
C) Something I purposefully left out to see if it would be brought up organically: Attraction to personality is separate from someoneās ability to read anotherās body language or follow direction given about likes and dislikes. With that said, some people have never practiced the art of giving direction or demonstrating what they like. This is a two-way street. I appreciate how many times men brought up communication. Quite endearing!
D) The original poster was referring to personality versus physical skill in foreplay. I mentioned nothing about physical appearance or attractiveness.
@blakealridge Appreciate your input love! I share the sentiments you stated. āŗā„
Someone sounds triggered 𤣠Have a great day hun. May something interesting and eventful happen for you!





