I'd rather hear the moans... I'm a "big guy" for a reason,.. always had an issue all my life, being built like a linebacker and trying to be gentle as possible with other people, always worried I'd hurt other people with my body-size. A long time ago, a girlfriend I was with at the time loved the prone-bone position, she always demanded it... buried her face in the pillow so she can scream all she wanted (living in an apartment at the time),... but there was a few times she wouldn't make a sound. Yeah, I did take her breath away, but she was in a trance of sorts too... so I jumped off her, freaking out that I hurt her in some way... only for her to snap back at me asking why I stopped, getting all disappointed... Again, life of a big guy, always having to be mindful, it killed that specific moment of ecstasy...
I mean, "yay me for sending a woman to the moon and back,.."... but yeah, my typical life of always being careful.