A fellow Perbster (Perbite?) sent me an email asking for tips for one of my favourite ways to spend time with an escort - overnights. I think there have been a few posts on this topic, but I will add a few of my own thoughts and experiences and see if there is interest in further discussion. My own approach is to treat an overnight with the same attitude I would if this were a "real" relationship - that is with great respect for boundaries, and a focus on mutual pleasure. I get much more enjoyment when I can show a gorgeous woman a pleasurable time, both sexually and personally.
I have two types of overnights - "dinner date" overnights, and regular overnights.
I have one or two special women that I will start an overnight earlier in the evening, maybe 6pm, so we can have round one of sex before going out for dinner together. Having sex first works well because we are both pretty horny and it is fun to work up an appetite. Usually for a dinner date overnight, I am visiting out of town so there is little likelihood of running into friends or acquaintances, but we will have some sort of cover story just in case. I only do the dinner date overnights with escorts that I have seen before and have a good connection, and interesting things to talk about. As dinner is winding down, our conversation might shift to some whispered suggestions of what we will be doing next. One of my ATFs is very good at generating creative ideas, and it is fun to discuss while she rubs my thigh under the table. Back to the hotel for round 2, usually drawn out over 2-3 hours. We usually share a glass of wine or two, but not to the point of getting intoxicated. Depending on the time, after round 2 we might have a shower together and then watch some Netflix - usually something that doesn't require much attention like some stand-up comedy show. Then lights out and snuggling to fall asleep. We will already have discussed sleep requirements and preferences. Most women will want at least 7 hours sleep time, and request limited body contact during that time. We might agree that my arm lightly on her shoulder would be okay, but not on tits or pussy. Most overnights will end at around 8 or 9 am, so hopefully she wakes up at around 7 am. We might snuggle for a bit and stroke pussy/dick. Before getting into business, we take turns going for a pee and brushing teeth. Morning sex is usually a bit shorter, maybe 45 minutes or so. Then she gets up and showers while I doze in bed. She comes back for a goodbye hug and kiss.
The regular overnight usually starts at 9pm and is much the same as above without the dinner portion. I do these with escorts that I might not have the same personal connection with, and there is a lot less time for conversation - just 2 or 3 hours of intense fucking before sleeping, and then another round in the morning.
The rate for overnights is hugely variable. Some women charge up to $4k for 12 hours. I have never done this, and I wonder if that is for younger guys who can MSOG all night long. I am seeing escorts who will charge $1500-$2000 range, and expect and need sleep time (as do I).
Any other comments or suggestions?
Mike
I have two types of overnights - "dinner date" overnights, and regular overnights.
I have one or two special women that I will start an overnight earlier in the evening, maybe 6pm, so we can have round one of sex before going out for dinner together. Having sex first works well because we are both pretty horny and it is fun to work up an appetite. Usually for a dinner date overnight, I am visiting out of town so there is little likelihood of running into friends or acquaintances, but we will have some sort of cover story just in case. I only do the dinner date overnights with escorts that I have seen before and have a good connection, and interesting things to talk about. As dinner is winding down, our conversation might shift to some whispered suggestions of what we will be doing next. One of my ATFs is very good at generating creative ideas, and it is fun to discuss while she rubs my thigh under the table. Back to the hotel for round 2, usually drawn out over 2-3 hours. We usually share a glass of wine or two, but not to the point of getting intoxicated. Depending on the time, after round 2 we might have a shower together and then watch some Netflix - usually something that doesn't require much attention like some stand-up comedy show. Then lights out and snuggling to fall asleep. We will already have discussed sleep requirements and preferences. Most women will want at least 7 hours sleep time, and request limited body contact during that time. We might agree that my arm lightly on her shoulder would be okay, but not on tits or pussy. Most overnights will end at around 8 or 9 am, so hopefully she wakes up at around 7 am. We might snuggle for a bit and stroke pussy/dick. Before getting into business, we take turns going for a pee and brushing teeth. Morning sex is usually a bit shorter, maybe 45 minutes or so. Then she gets up and showers while I doze in bed. She comes back for a goodbye hug and kiss.
The regular overnight usually starts at 9pm and is much the same as above without the dinner portion. I do these with escorts that I might not have the same personal connection with, and there is a lot less time for conversation - just 2 or 3 hours of intense fucking before sleeping, and then another round in the morning.
The rate for overnights is hugely variable. Some women charge up to $4k for 12 hours. I have never done this, and I wonder if that is for younger guys who can MSOG all night long. I am seeing escorts who will charge $1500-$2000 range, and expect and need sleep time (as do I).
Any other comments or suggestions?
Mike
