She’s not too broken up about that. Was a means to an end. Finally she couldn’t deal with clients any longer.
Are men suckers?
- Thread starter masterblaster
- Start date
Just because we're forced to pay for a female's pleasures doesn't mean we don't care about her pleasure as well.
Why does our pleasure have to be sexual though? I personally am a super horndog and get off a lot at work; but even if I didn’t, I would still enjoy my job for the economic benefits and the fun connections I make.
A lady doesn't always have to have an orgasm to feel tremendous pleasure, but I've also found that if you make them feel genuinely loved, cherished and appreciated, they often do. The spiritual side of the connection is the most gratifying and fulfilling.
wanna stop worrying so much about us and worry more about yourself possibly? Like... we're at work. Let us do our jobs however we see fit. why do YOU get to dictate how WE enjoy ourselves? why do we even have to?
Last edited:
Because most of the fun in any encounter comes from the experiencing the mutual pleasure you are both experiencing otherwise the whole thing is pointless for me anyway although I'm sure somewhere along the way I've experienced at least a couple of Hollywood North experiences. Once I actually pulled out because the partner said don't mess my hair. On my way out the door she asked what are you doing and I replied I'm not messing your hair.
I mean if you want mutual pleasure try..... DATING? I mean again, I definitely experience pleasure at work but not every provider does and I think that's okay.
also that story is hilarious I love the sass
Exactly. Or maybe think about finding a regular and putting the time in that it takes to develop that kind of intimacy.
Or maybe just enjoy the possibly mind-blowing ride with whomever you're with and don't sweat it.
Either way, mutual pleasure is not their job, and it should never be expected.
I sleep just fine, too, thank you, and maybe it's because I do care? I think that's possibly the greatest weapon we as clients can wield to help providers with burnout. A little appreciation and TLC go a long way.
Last edited by a moderator:
In the end they are people, and if the man excites her enough, hits the right spots well enough and for long enough, the O will happen. But I'm sure it would be extra hard for a client to give an SP the O, since she has probably seen a few clients that day, is sore, tired, repulsed, the list would go on and on.
I prefer to believe that if the individual I am with feels comfortable faking an orgasm, I can feel comfortable accepting that it was a real orgasm.
I did just that with my regulars, but instead I am slowly turning into a simp LOL
I have been regular with the same Same SP for almost 2 years now ...We are close in age and we seem to have a pretty decent connection ..As far as i know she didnt seem to fake any of her orgasms or my god if she did she should be awarded an oscar ..She likes DATY and most times thats how we start our session .Shorty after I became a regular we discussed that topic .. IT is always No pressure and If she didn't or doesn't have an "O" that was fine with me .. ..I am pretty good at following instructions and when the time was right she would grab me by the ears and direct my lips and tongue right where she needed it .?..There was some pretty intense and sensitive moments and I couldn't go near her vulva for a few minutes ..It isnt like that every time we meet and about 20% of the time she doesn't orgasm . One thing I know is she has never had an ''O" while having intercourse .. We always have fun and I always leave with a big smile on my face .
. I will award her an Oscar anyway ..shes good at what she does ...lol
. I will award her an Oscar anyway ..shes good at what she does ...lol
oh geez, where to begin with this comment? first, you're right, we ARE people; we aren't like, machines that react a certain way when we're touched a certain way. some women can't orgasm at all and never have. some women can only orgasm sometimes, regardless of whether the "right spots" are being "hit well enough and for long enough". a lot of it can be psychological.
not all SPs see multiple clients in a day.
not all women can't orgasm when they're sore.
not all women get sore after sleeping with multiple people.
not all sessions involve intercourse.
not all SPs are "repulsed" by their job or clients.
not all women can't orgasm when they're tired.
I feel like you have some unpacking to do, my guy.
