My take on this hobby...

[Cami Parker]

Thanks for sharing g your thoughts. I completely agree with you that the experience, from the very first email until the door closes behind you after a session is what you are paying for. Everything should always go smoothly and you should definitely feel comfortable and that your privacy us being respected at all times.

 

[screwtape1963]

Eclipca was describing the hits and misses he perceives and I have to agree with him, there is no doubt Asian's have a more velvety feel to them and some SP's work out of a Pigstye. It is still a crapshoot for those of us who like to TOFTT but I like the mystery of taking that chance. It's the logical progression away from the SW scene which has tanked to the lowest level Ive ever experienced. I still occasionally will find a hottie out there but it's very sketchy these days most of those gals are just best left on the corner where they are.
It's sad when you show up at an incall prepared to pay some good coin only to find out she's nothing like the pics and the service is terrible. I could just stick to the reviewed gals which is fine but it's like shooting fish in a barrel, I'm drawn to the unknown I like to take that chance. It has a plus side when I strike out enough it compels me to shut it down for awhile and hang on to my cash. SP's can be sketchy too!

The Street Walking "scene" is "very sketchy" THESE days? Just out of curiosity, when exactly WASN'T it "sketchy"? Bearing in mind, of course, that until C-36 came into effect in December, the only time a pooner committed a crime that could see him wind up in court with his name in the paper was when he "communicated in public" with a streetwalker who turned out to be an undercover cop. Or did so in a rush with a girl who then turned out to be underage so he got charged with statutory sexual assault too... (And yes, I am aware that it was also theoretically possible for a pooner visiting an incall to find himself being charged as a "found in" in a "bawdy house" -- and it maybe even happened somewhere in Canada once every decade or so too...)

I guess I am just really really trying to wrap my brain around the concept of someone finding today's "streetwalking scene" to be "sketchy" compared to it's fine, upstanding state back in the Good Old Days...

 

[superman88]

Thanks for sharing g your thoughts. I completely agree with you that the experience, from the very first email until the door closes behind you after a session is what you are paying for. Everything should always go smoothly and you should definitely feel comfortable and that your privacy us being respected at all times.

Simply and beautifully stated Cami!

That's all a guy can ever want in a nutshell: a good time from initial to final contact, yet always discreet.

Thanks for sharing.

S

 

[Cami Parker]

Always happy to add my two cents :thumb::thumb::thumb:

Simply and beautifully stated Cami!

That's all a guy can ever want in a nutshell: a good time from initial to final contact, yet always discreet.

Thanks for sharing.

S

 

[badbadboy]

Pretty classless comment. Good to know thou.

Eclipca, thanks for sharing, your not alone on some of your preferences.

Well done Cami. You are the only provider who choose to respond in a polite respectful manner. It is a choice and says a lot about someone. It didn't go unnoticed and it does matter.

So what ails you hank?

Brynn's comments were tongue in cheek with a bit of good old sarcasm as the cherry on the top. I am not understanding how the comments could be called "classless" or not delivered in a "polite respectful manner".

Seems pretty tame to me.

 

[Osiris]

After reading Brynn's replies, I would never waste my time seeing her. The OP was in no way personal or directed at anyone in particular, so I find the responses by Brynn way off the deep end.

I agree with many of the OP's points. It's just an opinion. No harm, no foul.

 

[Blonde Brynn]

So what ails you hank?

Brynn's comments were tongue in cheek with a bit of good old sarcasm as the cherry on the top. I am not understanding how the comments could be called "classless" or not delivered in a "polite respectful manner".

Seems pretty tame to me.

I am going to break character here for a bit to acknowledge this as truth. I bear no ill-will to the OP, nor do I think that his comments were made in anything but the best of faith.

Hanging around these boards as long as I have, however, definite patterns emerge, and threads like these are one. Dudes come in expressing "preferences," and, while they may contain some small amount of insight, for the most part, my edification is limited to the lack of perspective many have on the hows and whys of an SP's preferred manner of doing things. Rather than come in and explain these for the umpteen-billionth time, I chose to handle the issue with some levity, as is my wont.

Then things got a bit ugly.

For those who think informing me of your lack of intention to do business is some sort of threat, it could not be further from the truth. This is the exact reason I am semi-retiring. I only want to have AWESOME sex on my AWESOME terms with AWESOME people who recongnise my AWESOME and AWESOOOOOooooME! WHOO! Relinquishing the last few fucks I had to give about internet opinions (which are like assholes on the Ravenous Bugblatter Beast of Traal; beyond counting, and if you spend too much time around a collection of them you are bound to pass out from the gaseous emissions) has contributed greatly to my sense of well-being, and my ability to do this job well. My eyes are brighter, my coat glossier, and my libido has spiked to where it hasn't been since the hormonal heyday of puberty. In no way is this profound liberation worth trading for a few hundred bucks here and there.

At the very least, those who do choose to see me can be assured that my typical sweetness of disposition and easy-going attitude are in no way faked for financial gain.

 

[tadolder]

Wow!!! you guys need to chill out! Obviously you have never met Brynn. Nobody here was white knighting, we were only confirming our enjoyment of her sense of humour, sarcasm, and quick wit. Nothing more nothing less.

 

[CanineCowboy]

I find this thread to be atypical of a lot of the disharmony that appears in this industry and on this board: clients get shouted down for voicing criticisms, escorts get shouted down for voicing criticisms, and bad blood ensues. I can attest to a huge range of experiences. I've had excellent experiences with some women and I have had terrible experiences with some women. I've felt let down, mislead and disrespected more often then I would like to admit and I expect that escorts have a similar experience with clients. I wish that this board was a safe place where people could voice opinions and try and build some sort of harmony. For me, I don't need reviews to contain numbers, I don't need women to be compared to air brushed supermodels or celebrities. I don't need to know that 'she would be hotter if only she would lose 2 lbs, have breasts a cup size larger, not have a single tattoo or single blemish, have straighter teeth ...' I don't need encounters to be described position by position. I don't need to know how much of a 'stud' the reviewer is. I just really want to know whether an escort is legitimate and was respectful, engaging and enjoyable. Personally, from that point, it is normally my personal preference and connection as to whether I really enjoy my time with someone. Is there another local board where a customer can try to vet potential escorts without all the animosity or is this really the only environment that an individual can enter to delve information and advice?

 

[escapefromstress]

Is there another local board where a customer can try to vet potential escorts without all the animosity or is this really the only environment that an individual can enter to delve information and advice?

I think you're stuck with us.

 

[xo Heidi Hayes xo]

Wow!!! you guys need to chill out! Obviously you have never met Brynn. Nobody here was white knighting, we were only confirming our enjoyment of her sense of humour, sarcasm, and quick wit. Nothing more nothing less.

I second this. I had only garnered that this was all sinply some good ol' witty banter...
That is, until I checked in on the last couple pages of this thread
I enjoy much of the humour that is shared on this board, but I find that the greatest pitfall of the written word is that crucial components of communication (tone, inflection - even context) are often not adequately conveyed and this can be problematic with regards to interpreting the material..

 

[Moderator-1]

Hi Everybody;
Boy, it's sure easy to be a moderator, some days...

Guide to newcomers (most people in the past 2 years) - read the ladys' posts and those of long-term members and you'll see how to make classy (and interesting) comments and posts to Perb.

and yes, Vitargo - you're banned for two weeks. Use the time to go and wash your mouth with soap!

 

[uncleg]

 

[westwoody]

Brynn has a very good point even if some readers misunderstood it.

There is a cycle every few months of guys blathering away in the Winnipeg section about how women should run their business.
Reading a few of those guys' posts, it is clear they have NO CLUE about the real people behind the escort facade, or about why they run their escorting activities the way they do.
Mostly the guys are "econopooners" (Miss Melody's term IIRC) who think women could make more money by lowering their price and increasing volume. They are the same guys who think it is a huge insult/end of the world if an SP does not promptly answer their texts or emails. Instead of waiting for an answer they send ten or fifteen more...the same day.

 

[westcoast555]

Lol to each his own opinion. I thought the "smoothness" comment was one of the stupider things I've read on PERB.

In my experience Asian absolutely have the smoothest skin. I think it's because they have less hair.

 

[badbadboy]

I find this thread to be atypical of a lot of the disharmony that appears in this industry and on this board: clients get shouted down for voicing criticisms, escorts get shouted down for voicing criticisms, and bad blood ensues. I can attest to a huge range of experiences. I've had excellent experiences with some women and I have had terrible experiences with some women. I've felt let down, mislead and disrespected more often then I would like to admit and I expect that escorts have a similar experience with clients. I wish that this board was a safe place where people could voice opinions and try and build some sort of harmony. For me, I don't need reviews to contain numbers, I don't need women to be compared to air brushed supermodels or celebrities. I don't need to know that 'she would be hotter if only she would lose 2 lbs, have breasts a cup size larger, not have a single tattoo or single blemish, have straighter teeth ...' I don't need encounters to be described position by position. I don't need to know how much of a 'stud' the reviewer is. I just really want to know whether an escort is legitimate and was respectful, engaging and enjoyable. Personally, from that point, it is normally my personal preference and connection as to whether I really enjoy my time with someone. Is there another local board where a customer can try to vet potential escorts without all the animosity or is this really the only environment that an individual can enter to delve information and advice?

Who is shouting anyone down? Asking questions to clarify a response is still permitted here without anyone getting all Butt hurt is still how we roll, right?

You may feel more comfortable on TER where there are reviews and you read them without any comments etc.

 

[escapefromstress]

Who is shouting anyone down? Asking questions to clarify a response is still permitted here without anyone getting all Butt hurt is still how we roll, right?

You may feel more comfortable on TER where there are reviews and you read them without any comments etc.

Perb is much kinder and nicer now, than it was a few years ago, and one of the most civilized, well run forums in the industry imo.

:high5:

 

[westwoody]

So someone disagrees with you on the internet...really, so what?

Pooning is just a fun spur of the moment thing.

Anything more than that is overthinking it.

 

[xo Heidi Hayes xo]

This is an interesting comment, badbadboy, based on the fact most of my comments were removed, at moderation's behest, I would describe it as the third man in rule.

'Third man-in rule'?
Clearly 'Cantor' was no 'beginner' to begin with. Just sayin'...
Happy trails, bud.

 

[hankmoody]

I find this thread to be atypical of a lot of the disharmony that appears in this industry and on this board: clients get shouted down for voicing criticisms, escorts get shouted down for voicing criticisms, and bad blood ensues. I can attest to a huge range of experiences. I've had excellent experiences with some women and I have had terrible experiences with some women. I've felt let down, mislead and disrespected more often then I would like to admit and I expect that escorts have a similar experience with clients. I wish that this board was a safe place where people could voice opinions and try and build some sort of harmony. For me, I don't need reviews to contain numbers, I don't need women to be compared to air brushed supermodels or celebrities. I don't need to know that 'she would be hotter if only she would lose 2 lbs, have breasts a cup size larger, not have a single tattoo or single blemish, have straighter teeth ...' I don't need encounters to be described position by position. I don't need to know how much of a 'stud' the reviewer is. I just really want to know whether an escort is legitimate and was respectful, engaging and enjoyable. Personally, from that point, it is normally my personal preference and connection as to whether I really enjoy my time with someone. Is there another local board where a customer can try to vet potential escorts without all the animosity or is this really the only environment that an individual can enter to delve information and advice?

Your right. There are alot of immature, entitled aholes out there. You can use it to screen for potential providers thou. The men you can just ignore. You could also check out cerb/lyla. Supposedly no negativity over there so you may only get half the story in a review. Be nice to have something inbetween. This has made me realize how lucky i've been to meet some of the lovely ladies that i have. I read in another thread beautiful woman are a dime a dozen. Beautiful ones that are warm, kind, sincere with a great attitude and personality are not. Sad but true.